Step Daughter To Be Hates Me
I’ve been with my fiancé about a year now. His daughter is 18 years old . I have 2 other children from a previous relationship. I met his daughter shortly after beginning the relationship with him. We seemed to have hit it off pretty good. So I thought . She is 18 & I’ll be 27. So she’s not to much younger than me. Well after we got engaged (Christmas day 2018) she really got mad . She says it’s because her father didn’t ask her permission to marry me & she feels that I’m taking her place (I totally am not looking to do that) I even reached out to her and told her I’m not here to take her place & never will be . She lives with her mother & only really bothers with my fiancé when she wants money for something & he always caves in and gives her what she wants . She is pretty spoiled . I guess it’s all a jealousy thing .. I’m not sure why the hate towards me is so bad now all of the sudden. She said she won’t be coming to our wedding in September & she doesnt approve of it . We had a baby in January together & she has YET to meet him .. she doesn’t even acknowledge the fact that she has a new little brother . It hurts me . I really wish she would just get out of her head & realize that I’m going to be her step mother in September. I mean she is 18 so she is an adult, but it’s upsetting because we got along so well before I got engaged to her dad . I had a child with him ... did she think I was just going to be his girlfriend forever & nothing would come out of the relationship lol ?? I mean it’s gotten to the point where she has sent him text messages talking bad about me .. calling me names & just acting really childish . I try & just forget about the whole situation and live my life happy with him .. but it’s hard sometimes & some of the things she has said hurt me.