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Submitted by Drac0 on Fri, 08/23/2013 - 2:00pm

DW is starting a new job next week. She is in desperate need of a new wardrobe. So the only time she has to shop is between now and Monday.

Originally the plan was to get my folks to baby-sit BS, BD and SS and I accompany DW on Saturday. Unfortunately, a good friend of my Dad’s just passed away and he and my Mom are going to the wake on Saturday. They are also busy on Sunday so they can’t babysit the kids.

We were *thinking* of letting SS babysit the two little ones but DW and I are both in agreement that SS is just not ready for that responsibility.

So I did the only thing I could think to do. I gave DW my credit card and told her to go shop to her heart’s content while I stay behind and watch the kids. DW didn’t want to do that because she really wanted me to come with her and help her choose her outfits. I really wanted to go too because seeing DW try on all these outfits is like having my own little private fashion show.

However the only way we can do this is if me and her and the two kids pile into the car and go to the mall altogether. This would mean that SS will want to come too and whenever SS comes with us *some* drama will ensue.

*sigh*

Not looking forward to this.

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overworkedmom's picture

Submitted by overworkedmom on Fri, 08/23/2013 - 2:03pm

I don't have any advice on the babysitter issue. HOWEVER, I do want to say WOW!! My husband would never go shopping with me. NEVER. You win awesome hubby points!!

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Submitted by overworkedmom on Fri, 08/23/2013 - 2:21pm

I don't know. Every time I have asked he says something along the lines of... No way in hell am I going....

Not even to Victoria Secrets. KILLS ME! UGGGHHH

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Submitted by Starla on Fri, 08/23/2013 - 2:30pm

I don't like to shop alone and I find it romantic when my DH goes with me. Sometimes we end up having fun in the changing rooms but I got to know what he likes seeing me in before I want to buy it. Dirol

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Submitted by Merry on Fri, 08/23/2013 - 2:17pm

Mine shops with me. He's got a GREAT eye. Can't you hire a babysitter, Drac0? Seems a shame to miss out on this since you both enjoy it.

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Submitted by Drac0 on Fri, 08/23/2013 - 2:46pm

It might be a bit short notice but maybe my neighbor's kid wouldn't mind doing some babysitting. she has actually taken babysitting courses and she has asked us repeatedly to hire her. The thing is, (and this is gonna sound awkward), she's a year younger than SS.

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Submitted by amackeral on Fri, 08/23/2013 - 4:32pm

Maybe the neighbor girl could watch them at her house, that way if she has any problems with SS, her mom/dad are there to help out a little?

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Submitted by momagainfor4 on Fri, 08/23/2013 - 2:37pm

My SO is cool going shopping with me. He enjoys seeing me try on new clothes and finding things that make me feel good and look good. On another note, I usually pay my own way so I don't necessarily need him to pay or need his credit card.

I think it's very nice that you want to go with her but at the same time...... maybe she needs to downtime and quiet to just really shop and put together some outfits that will work for her without anyone there with her.

I'm worried that since you aren't there that she's going to feel like everything must have your approval so will she not get what she really needs??
Just a thought!!
hope she has a great time and wows everyone at her new job!!

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Submitted by Drac0 on Fri, 08/23/2013 - 3:05pm

Didn't think of that but no, DW used to go shopping by herself all the time but since money was kinda tight she hasn't gone on any BIG shopping spree for a while.

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Submitted by Jsmom on Fri, 08/23/2013 - 2:47pm

Mine would never go...Unless it happens to be right next to a restaurant we are going to, this never happens. If I have to get some real shopping done, I don't know if I would want anyone to tag along.

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Submitted by elvis1 on Fri, 08/23/2013 - 2:54pm

lucky lucky woman, my DH hates shopping. he thinks I should wear old nasty clothes and NEVER EVER spend money on anything, even tho it is MY money and our finances are separate.

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Submitted by twoviewpoints on Fri, 08/23/2013 - 4:04pm

Congrats to the wife on her new job.

If the shopping spree doesn't work out for you to attend (no way would I enjoy the spree with a parade of kids) she can always snap pics and get your advice/opinion that way. Not of much fun as being there in person, but it will allow her to get your input. She just has to snap and send. In a few minutes she'll get back what you think.

There's a plus side in this method for DW too...she can get you to see and really like something without having to chance you seeing price tag pre-purchase Smile

It's not the ideal solution but it is a way for her to get a second opinion 'do you like this one or that one'.

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Submitted by hismineandours on Fri, 08/23/2013 - 4:19pm

My dh likes to shop with me as well. He always encourages me to buy all sorts of things so its a bit dangerous. I would hire the neighbor girl. Lets face it-girls mature faster than boys in most situations. I would simply tell ss that her job is to watch the two little ones and his job is to stay out of her way and watch himself. Unless you think he might develop some creepy crush on her? Can she watch your little ones at her house and ss can amuse himself for a few hours?