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CrazieCoconut86's picture

Hey all. I haven't been on in a while. Things have been going so well. But, you know what they say, too much of a good thing, can be bad.

BM dropped a bomb on DH last week. She is moving out of state. Apparently BM's DH got a promotion. They will only be just over state lines, so max about an hour away. This isn't really any further then just before she moved to our county. It is just extremly inconvienent because DH and I were looking forward to volunteering at SS5's school. I really wanted to chaperone (sp?) some field trips. We will still be doing that, it just won't be the amount that we would like. Thats even if BM finds the time in her precious schedule to get him enrolled in school. (If she doesn't, this person will be calling CPS on her ass, again.)

DH called the county where the custody case has been handled. He just wanted to get it on record that BM is moving out of state, just in case BM decides to start something. According to DH, the only thing the woman on the phone would tell him was, "Contact a lawyer." Is there anything we can do at this point? You know, something that wouldn't involve us getting charged hundreds of dollars?

DH doesn't want to contest the move out of state. He figures it wouldn't go his way. And now 50/50 is out of the question. He just wants to show that he made contact with the courts, to let them know what was happening. Just in case she tries to change jurisdictions and get full custody.

Any opinions? Thanks for the help all! I really do appreciate anything you guys can give me.

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simifan's picture

If you're changing the Agreement get it officially on file and I'd make her do all the transport since she's moving.