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Coco72's picture

I just need to vent, it’s been a long week....we found out BM is being evicted and is moving around 60 miles away, this is not going to allow for our current 50/50 custody arrangement, we’ve consulted an attorney and DH has decided to ask for primary custody, our whole entire week has been DH talking about this, making lists, on and on. I’m already on edge about all this. Yesterday DH gets a text from BM saying that for the next week and a half all pick up and drop off needs to be negotiated with her mom GBM. DH tells her there’s nothing to negotiate, we have a court order, blah, blah, blah. She ignores him, whatever. 

Tonight we go to the pick up location and GBM (sweet lady) tells us she will see us Sunday, as her daughter is on vacation in Florida!!!!!

UGH!!!! Seriously how do you go on vacation when you do not have a job, you are being evicted and suppose to be out this week, and you can’t even support your children?? 

I’m so frustrated because her poor choices effect me and my household.

.....rant over...... thanks :) 

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decofru's picture

Yeah being a step mom means it can never be just about you and your DH . BM and SS will affect your life in ways you have never imagined and it sucks!! Imagine planning a weekend get away with DH and then BM decides she wants to go away and cannot watch the kid so you have to cancel your plans. Meaning BM gets to decide whether you go or not!!! Sometimes BM does that on purpose just to ruin your plans!!! Come to think you will deal with SC and their BM your entire relationship, makes you realise that you really didnt think things through when you agreed to settle for a man with a child.