another Restraining Order filed
This truly is exhausting.....brief back story on the latest drama, HCBM moved 60 miles away over the summer no longer allowing for the shared 50/50 custody agreement to work. She didn't inform DH until 2 days before school began, although we had already found out from SS11. DH tried to communicate with BM earlier in the summer but she literally just ignored all texts. When she did finally inform him and they began negotiating an agreement BM wanted DH to do all the sacrificing, less time, more money, drive further, etc. DH stood his ground. Of course BM didn't like that. Day 1 the conversation ended with no agreement being met, DH was very angry, but kept his cool with her. Day 2 he put together a very well worded text once again outlying what he was willing to agree to, that night they came to an interim agreement, for 6 months. Things seemed good..........
Friday DH was served with a Relief from Abuse order that she had filed against DH, protecting her and SS, which included her being given custody of SS!!!! The judge denied the emergency order, but scheduled a hearing for 2 weeks later. DH was livid, he questioned BM about it and she admitted that she did it because DH wouldn't agree to what she wanted, and the next day went and withdrew the complaint!!
This is the second time in about a year she has done this, the first time was when DH and I first moved in together. Does anyone know if DH has any recourse for her filing these emergency orders and then dropping them days later?