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Bradymom's picture

Two weeks in a row we have gone to stepkids game. Two weeks in a row bio mom won't allow step kid to even say Hi to us. Congratulations bio mom you are awesome. Who does that?! A hello. So insecure you won't allow your kid to say Hello.

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Bradymom's picture

We sat above gym In Observation Area. Both times. We talked to her last weekend saying a Hello is expected. You could see the weight on skids face. I guess if we come next week we will bypass the insane bio mom & meet her before they dismiss. If we come. DH not happy. Not sure what his thoughts are. Have skids this weekend.

furkidsforme's picture

Go up to the kid and say hello. Stop playing her games. It takes 2 to play, ya know.

Stupidlyoptimistic's picture

We were in court yesterday. OSD was telling DH bye, so I was watching and smiling at her. She was about to come tell me bye and BM2 came over to stand between us. I just rolled my eyes and laughed. I have nothing to be insecure about, but obviously she does. Lol

CommittedMomma's picture

How do you know she won't allow it? Just walk over and say hi to kid and the BM! I don't mind if my kids say hello to their BM if she actually attends one of their games ( she very very rarely does) but I don't like when she sits by us. No thank you. It's embarrassing for my DH for people to see who he was married to.

Bradymom's picture

The bio moms behavior has been addressed multiple times in counseling & it's very obvious. Stepkid lights up when sees us... Tries to avoid eye contact with bio mom... Bio mom glaring & trying to get stepkids attention... Step kid looks at her... Step kid looks like they've been beat... When time to leave bio mom holds onto stepkid... Pulling them, pushing them...