Classic Text Book plays of the EX!
My only advice for someone fixing to get married into a family that children already exist in and you are becoming a step parent
Is number one rule is to make sure you live at least 2 ½ hours away from the ex.
Because: this is always a text book rule with every bitch that pulls this crap.
My ex marrying his new wife makes new wife my nanny. Now how do you think the ex-wife is going to play this card? It goes a little like this
Ex-wife – the kids would like to see you more often. You are only across town. Could you or get your new wife pick up jack and Jill at school and while she is at it she needs to pick up some cough meds for Jill and take them to their scout meeting at 6pm and they can stay a night with y’all but she needs to get up and take them to school tomorrow.
Ex-husband (your husband now) Oh okay yea we can do that. I would love to see my kids.
Ex-wife- um yes they would really like to see you. I didn’t think you would ever deny our children.
If you the new wife bocks on it and it gets back to the ex-wife ears.
Ex-wife- uh John? The kids really want to see you. Are you really going to deny your children? It is pretty pathetic of you because the children wants to see you and now you are going to sit here and upset them. Really John? Your new wife is obligated to our children because they are your children John. I do not get what her problem is. If she didn’t want to deal with OUR children. You should not have married her!
I am pretty sure every ex who wants to control the other person life played out this classic text book deal.
NEVER LIVE IN THE SAME TOWN AS THE EX’s LIVE IN.
I find living quite a few miles apart elevates some stress especially this classic text book play.
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