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Bex_S's picture

Well, the family split has finally happened. After 6 years of misery and stress caused by toxic SD, she is out of my life and my children's lives. She, for the 4th time has made false accusations of abuse and neglect, supposedly perpetrated by myself and DH. Despite the extensive history of lying about pretty much anything from this, right down to little white lies (and being caught out every time), BM still believes the lies. SD has even now begun to accuse us of abusing our own children, so DH and I have put our foot down to protect the family unit. Now SD will not be coming to the house anymore. DH will pick SD up and take her out for the day/our holiday caravan overnight when access time is due.

I'm devastated for my husband. How could she be so evil?! How could she put him in such an awful position?!

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la_dulce_vida's picture

So SD is abused and neglected by her own father, BUT BM is cool with him taking her on holiday to the caravan? Sounds typical of crazy BMs. Good riddance. I hope you enjoy the peace.

dragonfly878's picture

This is my biggest fear (see my previous post). I'm so sorry you're going through this. 

Dogmom1321's picture

Absolutely! This just validates your feelings. Those same fears sadly become a reality for some. Hope everything is going well for you after your last post. 

dragonfly878's picture

Thank you so much... it's definitely not easy! I appreciate your support more than you know.

justmakingthebest's picture

If I was your husband I wouldn't be alone with her either. He needs to have someone else there as a witness anytime he is with her.