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baseballgirly's picture

Submitted by baseballgirly on Sun, 02/05/2012 - 11:46am

Well. Now the skids don't even have to be here for us to fight about them. Now we are in constant battle. Our relationship is truly being tested and I don't know if SO knows how serious it is getting. I have been ready to leave for months now. Ready to call it all off. Ready to move out. Yet he continues to be an asshole and do dumb stuff. I won't even mention his last escapades, just that it was very inappropriate. He said sorry and now is mad at me that I haven't gotten over it yet. Well.... being mad isn't a switch I can turn off. I need my time and I will take it.

By now, the skids aren't even the issue. My SO is an idiot. That's the issue.

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alwaysanxious's picture

Submitted by alwaysanxious on Sun, 02/05/2012 - 11:54am

The fact that he's mad you won't get over it, just shows how much he doesn't get how bad it was, right?

I'm sorry. (((((baseballgirly))))

it often does boil down to the SO being an idiot.

bi's picture

Submitted by bi on Sun, 02/05/2012 - 12:02pm

i hate how men think they get to decide how much and for how long we get to react to something they said or did. just because they are over it doesn't mean we have to be. and you're right, you need time. you don't get to pick how long you're upset. your emotions control that. if he doesn't like how long it takes you to get over things, maybe he should learn to keep his pie hole shut and not be a jackass.