What is the most tactless thing BM has said/done to you?
For me, it was making fun of me when I miscarried.
For my friend I told you about a few days ago, the most tactless thing she (BM) did was to post on her myspace about this party she was going to throw because, in her words, "ding dong the bitch is dead! Which old bitch? The wicked bitch is dead!" Her profile isn't set to private. She invited her family and friends, and told them she ordered a huge cake with candles. After the party, she posted pics of it on her myspace, stating that she will throw a party on every anniversary of SM's death. She posted all of this in public where my friend, her sibs and their kids (all of whom loved the SM) could see this. My friend's dad and SM would regularly check out BM's profile for amusement. A few weeks after SM died, BFF's dad checked out BM's myspace. He needed a good laugh. Then he reads and sees all this and is infuriated. I know he shouldn't have been looking at BM's page but for her to post that in public, where she knows that anyone, including her ex (who doesn't have a myspace page) could see that is evil. Even worse, she subjected her kids & grandkids to it. I don't object to her throwing a party. Heck, DH would throw a party when SDs aren't around if BM died. But I have a huge problem with her posting such information in a place where people who knew & loved SM could see it (BFF, her sibs, her kids, nieces & nephews are friends with her on myspace).
What's the most tactless thing BM has said/done to you?