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Should i just admit defeat and let SD10 win

alwaysme's picture

As per previous blog SD10 is a little asshole, she is nasty and spiteful and tells me she prefers living at our house when i am not there, she lies she hits the boys SS13 and BS12, she is just a constant nightmare, she is always in a foul mood and abusive. She basically just treats everyone like shit, especially me. However she talks to her own mother like shit and talks to her mothers boyfriend like shit... but she sucks up DH's ass. However i can deal with her if DH actaully did something about it. HE DOES NOTHING.!!!!!!! the little bitch told me last week she is going to live with her mother so i told her to go, she rang her mum to come get her (i was already going to drop her off there anyway)and i told her dont bother coming back!! After speaking with DH about this latest situation i suggested to him to actually let SD10 live with her mother as she requested, let her actually suffer the consequences of her bullshit tantrum, but i know he wont he has not even spoke to her about any of it. I am sick to death of it, i am the one that looks after them because DH works early (i work full time too) Now i dont want her with me anymore, i dont want to look after her at all. DH said he will go to work later but that is just stupid, she gets what she wants and he loses work hours. My husband is a fucking pansy. He can call me all the names under the sun and does everything nice for everyone else.

Get this, yesterday he rings me and tells me he wants to give BM boyfriend a pup that we have at home (we are selling dogs for $250 each) he thinks he should have one because he does things with his kids and has to put up with SD10 abuse as well. BM and her boyfriend have been together for a total of 6 months. I have been with DH for 5 long years, i dont even get so much as a thankyou let alone a $250 gift. DH does not even know BM's BF. Clearly i am devastated by my husbands logic and was crying over this, DH then proceeds to tell me to stop carrying on and i need professional help, he told me i needs to get control of myself in which i reminded him i am fucking pregnant.

I am just plain sick of it my husband has no balls, he wont stick up for me and i just want out, but my husband and i had finally started to get along better and were working on our problems, but his 10 year old keeps on bringing them back up. Should i just let her win, i am just so tired of it all!!!!!

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The big G's picture

You don't need to look after her in the mornings it is perfectly reasonable to expect a 10 year old to get herself dressed and fed for school. Your pregnant and don't need the aggro. Also what do you do for her? If she talks to you like rubbish then you stop doing something for her teach her cause and effect. I have started to disengage from my sd13 she has an awful attitude and is extremely rude it helps alot I just cook her a meal if sd doesn't like it then tough go and cook your own tea and clean up your own mess I don't clean up after her and don't in out of my way for her now untill she learns respect. Good luck with your pregnancy.