Sooooo my SS 13 and my SD 11 have started arguing about BM lately. SS sees through her lying non responsive bull shit and SD is her daughter so stuck like glue even after over a year of no contact.

I assume SD was talking about BM to her friend today (AGAIN) and SS says something negative about BM so SD flips out on him. He simply giggles and says "Why are you still trying to stick up for her!?" He even started calling her by her name. Wow, such a proud Mom she must be!!

I felt bad but happy and giggly about it myself. I'm glad I was in a different room. I totally understand that a child always wants good biological parents, and if they don't have it they dream about it. Even to this day I would still wish my parents had never divorced and stayed together so I couldn't imagine them to be any different.

Long story short SD got treated waaaay better at BMs then SS did. I'm still not sure exactly how to deal with SD and our relationship it's so up and down. For ex: Last night we were all playing a game together. It's a 4 player game and is meant to be played in teams. SD throws a fit if she doesn't get to be FDHs partner so here we are. SS and I against SD and FDH. SS and I started doing well; winning, so we were high fiving and what not. She totally attacked me, went out of her way to take me out or put me behind for the remainder of the first game and for the two after that. I hate being treated like this!!!! It's a lose lose situation for me with her. I understand she is a little girl going through a very ruff patch in life but why do I have to be the one shes trying to dominate!!?? Grrrrrrrrr.....I wanna reach over and slap her Mama!!! LOL

FDH has stated that BM has brain washed SD, made her feel so guilty about wanting a normal family and for loving me as much as she does so still to this day she has to try to take me down and steal my life!!! Will this ever end or do I need to find a second home throughout SDs teen years!!?? LMaO.... No really I'm afraid for when she turns 13 till about 20!