Hi girls

I am at rope's end here, my relationship with my SD is going from bad to worse

She had and still have little wife syndrome

She got pregnant and despite my pleas to marry the guy she did, she informed me that she planned the pregnancy to get married

Her father was not happy and I had my hands full convincing him to walk her down the aisle

I had 9 days to plan the wedding and everything

Well two years on the marriage is not moonshine and roses anymore, he cannot provide for her like her father did

So, she wrote her father a letter and told him he must choose between me and her, and a lot of other things

The therapist read the letter and said she is a narcissist because of everything she demands in this letter 

So for about 3 months it looked like he was choosing me and she ignored him

The therapist said that she must come to us first and we must not go to her because that is what she wants, for us to forever just forgive everything and just let it go without talking it out

So now I find out that my husband has been calling her about every day, and I do not know what to do, this is how it goes everytime

She makes accusations, she sets limits and we must obey and if we do not obey we must crawl back

I am so tired of this, I did play the game while she was a kid in the house just for peace sake but I am so tired now, this is getting to much for me, she is a 24 year old mum wanting to have another baby but she wants us to pay all the bills and give them what they want so that she can have a life with everything she wants, the husband doesn't earn enough and she refuses to "work for a boss"

Please help me with advice I am so tired of this demands and insults and a husband that doesn't have the backbone to put her in her place