My DH and I filed paperwork to either stop BM from moving the Skids again or she can move and we would get custody with her having visitation. Seems simple to me. Wrong! I should have known that this wasn't going to be easy. All we wanted for the skids was a stable home where they didn't have to keep starting over. If she can provide that then great but she moves homes and schools every couple of years. Everytime they move they I can see a change in them. Everytime she takes us to court its for more money and then she always throws it in my face that she doesn't need DH's money.

Dh's stepdad passed. He had been sick for a while. He was with mil for 5 years so dh didn't really consider him a stepdad....until now. Whatever. And my stepFIL's kids have shown their true stepkid entitlement issues to my mil. They have been hounding mil for things since his passing. Stepfil has been with mil for 5 years and I barely met his kids this year because they never came around! It was sad really. He always asked to see his kids and grandkids but they rarely came around. When he and mil would try to visit, his kids would rush him out.

Just wanted to see if other folks are going through this. Here's the situation:

Last week was my DH's birthday..I took him out to dinner and a movie and spent some quality time with him. It was a really nice weekend for us.

DH informs me yesterday that his daughter - who I utterly detest - was having a 'birthday' cookout for him today. It included every last member of his family including grandchildren. DH knows how I feel about his daughter. I'd rather pull my own teeth out of my head than be any where near her. I've never been to her and her husband's apartment nor do I care to.

well ST has been down and sooooo much has happened.....
As some may remember SD13 burned some paper in her room...hid it...it was ORIGIONALLY found along with the lighter by DOD....He hid this from ME...I found the burned paper and I brought it to DH's attention...DH LIED to ME!!!!!!!!!!

:jawdrop: Im soooooooooooooooooooooo happy ST is back!! I was worried I had gotten the boot from here!!!!!!!
I have SOOOOOOOOOOOO much to vent about....now I have to try to remember it allll........and pick a place to start!!
Vent away my friends before it goes down again.....:)

I do my best not to let BM's lies phase me. I take the appropriate action and try not to take her words to heart because I know that she is just a petty liar and honestly, a bitch. However, she is suddenly telling me that when my FDH and I first got together he was still sleeping with her and that he doesn't love me.

I just had to sit on my hands to not slap the taste out of SS11's mouth. DH told him to get off the computer, and after 5 or 6 "Hold ons" I finally just walked over there and closed the laptop. Nothing of importance was on that computer, school's over, so it's not homework. Both SS's are habitual offenders when it comes to not listening and doing as they're told, plus after spending an additional 9-10 hours working with little kids who also don't listen, I'd had it. He stormed off and said, "You're stinkin' rude, Boogeymom!" I thought I was going to fly off the handle.

Around 2 yesterday the incessant phone calls and texts stopped. This afternoon SO had an email from her apologizing, stating she talked with someone (likely her attorney) that helped her realize she was not acting in the best interests of the children with her behaviors, and far from helping her financial situation it was liable to cost her more in attorney fees. (YME did you find her and talk sense into her?)

Turns out not only are the children not his but when he went through kimo treatment it made him sterile! So here I am with an honorable man that wants to be there for the children he raised as his own and I'm being a part time mother to two children that aren't even his! I can't even have hopes for children of my own....it makes me sad I know he can't controll it but it hurts. And also he keeps saying he loves them the same but if he has no actual tie to them and almost everytime they come over he says not in the mood for the kids I miss them but I don't want them all wkend!