So for Easter we go to church with DHs parents. Evidently SD20 will be there too. I haven't seen her in 3 1/2 months since the whole CPS incident and her going to DHs parents and telling lies about me. I haven't seen her, but while we were out of the country for a week she and her loser BF were in our house. I can't begin to tell you how pissed I was about that, and DH doesn't really seem to care. He didn't want to talk to her about it because "she's trying so hard" and "things are getting better" ?!?! Wish I knew what he knows that I don't.

So Easter Sunday BF and I our going to visit the children, that are his only by paper at my MIL. FIL will be there and I am sides few aunt and uncles. But knowing BM she's going to stay for a little how do I control my hate for that? Say for the kids but there all her anyway. I just want to know why she thinks his is ok. We are not her family any more

We will be busy with family stuff for the weekend, but I wanted to tell everyone Happy Easter. I know that some of the joy from the holidays gets taken away from us stepmonsters, but do your best! Because we won't be seeing SD of course that means that MIL and FIL will not get our DD anything for easter. So I have to keep my mouth shut. You know how that goes.

The sad part is that they always trying to find a reason to call him or me like it is ok and its not he say he sick of them but he get mad when i keep it real with him about his sorry ass kids.So i try not to here him when he start vent about his kids,because he all ready knows that the apple don't fall far from the tree. The oldest 2 are having baby like crazy and now he want 2 tell me all about it i really don't care.So do u think iam been a little hard on him?

So the BM attorney told my and DH to act like adults when it comes to visitation rights and who can pick up and take SS6. This woman has called DH and i fat, stupid, uneducated and mentally abusive. all our recorded under text message. how long should DH and i have to wait until we say only contact between parents can be made between email unless there is a medical emergency. We only got a home phone for the BM to call her son yet she still uses my DH cell. it's very frustrating and rude. her new bf even gets in the mix yet we haven't said one word about him.

but I have left him and am at a shelter now working on getting a mobility application to the courts in order to move back to ohio. I have my daughter and my son with me and i hope to be able to go home but the fall hopefully. i really hope he doesnt fight me but in either case i feel confident i can win and prove that i can have a better life for my son in ohio.

Neglect or just annoying?

I have been thinking about this for some time. It popped in my head again today after getting into it with BF about what was important to him. He hates some of the things that BM does with their kids but doesn't do anything about it but complain. I know that he doesn't have the money for a lawyer to take her to to court and get custody changed. But still ....

I haven't been on Steptalk in a year & I'm happy to say that my life has changed so much. I split up w/ FH last April & it was extremely hard at first because I truly loved him & missed him but I realized that nothing was ever going to change. It didn't matter what I said or did. I never wanted to be a stepmom, especially to his children. They were raised so different from my own & I was so totally miserable. I got alot of advice from this site...some positive & some negative. I will say I still feel like I did. I don't like his children & never will.

We had ONE nice day a week ago, the first nice day we've had yet this year. By nice, I mean 60 degrees. The weather forecast said it would be back to 40 degrees with a chance of sleet/snow the following day. Also the wind was going to be 30mph...brrr! I dropped off my son at daycare that day and saw SS3 there. He was wearing SHORTS and a t-shirt. I commented about how it's silly to wear shorts when it's not summer out yet, and our daycare lady kind of gave me a look and shrugged her shoulders.

Ohh I've missed you all. I had my baby boy 8 weeks ago and I think I've only posted once since then. I'm now back at work (which has major lag times during the day) so I'll be posting like a regular again!