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OMG I never should of agreed to come back to this nightmare!!!!! counseling and trying to not talk to his ex. what a load of crap. Sure your no longer talking using her phone but I'm not a flipping moron I see the sudden increase in phone calls from the eldest child's phone and the increase in time spent picking them up!!!!! I guess destroying one family was not enough now your going to destroy a second family. What the f how could he!!!!!!! Says he loves me and wants to work things out but how can he love me and still be having so much to do with another woman?!?!? Do I not matter at all is she always going m be so freaking important!!!
We are suppose to be going to
We are suppose to be going to counselling because he sees nothing wrong with talking to and being there for her and he was suppose to be limiting their talking beyond the care of the boys and no more favors. What an ass and I am stupid I feel for it ugh why of all the men did I go and keep this one. What I wouldn't give to use him as a punching bag right now!!!!!!!!
Eek! Tell him to back to her
Eek! Tell him to back to her since he's still sucking off her tit by keeping the communication going and being sneaky about it.
Obviously, he still has feelings for her - othrwise he'd be standing by you, supporting you and telling her to back the hell off.
Get angry - get away from him - and focus on you.
I am coming from a rather
I am coming from a rather different side of this and I hope I can shed some light here. My exhusband and I could talk and we did for years but I stopped when he started turning things I said against me to our children. My second husband and his ex did not speak, my husband refused to speak to her. This causes real problems. It is not easy among exes to be civil but it really is important for the kids. If the kids feel like they have to side with one parent or cannot love the other because of the tension between the parents everyone suffers.
All situations are different,
All situations are different, and so are the players. I think they should be civil also. When 1 of the exes takes being civil to still acting like they are married, a line has to be drawn.
I think they can be civil
I think they can be civil with out 1 hiding their talking and 2 with a whole let less talking about things that do not pertain to their kids. Her calling him because her dog is throwing up and wants medicine we used for one of our dogs or complaining about her job or whatever else might be wrong is beyond the realm of being acceptable. Not to mention I do not believe in the long run him continuing this kind of communication is going to stop her from bad mouthing him every time she does not get her way.
I'm honestly to the point I
I'm honestly to the point I don't think he really does care about me I think he just cant stand to be alone. I know she still has feelings for him. She told me a couple months back that even though she filed for divorce She didn't want it she wanted to fix their relationship. So to me her calling him all the time is her way of controlling him and wanting him to still be there for her is because she hasn't moved on but I cant make him see this and that all he's doing by allowing this to continue is enabling her from moving on and taking time away from our relationship. Which is very much unfair and disrespectable to me and our marriage. No woman I know of truly over their ex would ever call him so much. I know I would rather spite myself then rely on an ex. His ex has male family as well and female family she could call as well and that pisses me off a whole lot that she still chooses to call my husband over them.
She did. He said he didn't
She did. He said he didn't want it got down on his knees begging her to not follow through. She had been messing around on him for a while with a bunch of college age kids ten years younger then her and then just before filing for divorce an ex boyfriend
She still has feelings for
She still has feelings for him. He still has feelings from her. Now he's using skid's phone to pretend he doesn't talk to her as much as he does.
If you find a way to fix this marriage take notes because you will be able to write a best seller.
Lmao not really funny but
Lmao not really funny but last weekend my grandmother told me I should start writing a book too!!!!! I'm not ready to share custody but I'm loosing hope very fast that it will be any other way.
Lmao not really funny but
Lmao not really funny but last weekend my grandmother told me I should start writing a book too!!!!! I'm not ready to share custody but I'm loosing hope very fast that it will be any other way.
Not long enough the first
Not long enough the first time he asked me out was just a month or two after the divorce. Not really sure now I remember when he asked me out he said recently divorced. We had known each other for probably two years already our delivery routes had some of the same area. We'd do the small talk but I was shocked when he asked me out told him yes because I didn't want to hurt his feelings but when I realized he didn't have my number I hastily told him I had to go and practically slammed my back door shut in his face. After that I avoided him as if he was the plague I would skip stops I was headed to if he was there. It was a year later that I finally agreed to dinner. I found out after we had been dating for a couple months that she never moved out till probably two months before our first date. I was so mad told him had I known earlier I never would of agreed to anything with him.
His ex has played that I
His ex has played that I didn't cheat her nephew has classes with some of those guys they was bragging about sleeping with her to her nephew and she told her mother who wrote it all down in a diary that the family found when she passed away two years ago. When she found out about me I was at his house cooking dinner she came and got the boys then when we meet is when she started the accusations against me.
How did you get to where you didn't care? I want to not care but I do I care very much it really upsets me that she does so many cruel things and that my husband doesn't even seem to notice
Ugh I don't think they should
Ugh I don't think they should control them but I do think my husband needs to grow a pair of balls and put an end to it all. How old are your skids?
I wish mine would be that up
I wish mine would be that up front and honest if thats the way he feels about her calls. Not sure it would much but at least I would have some form of hope to hang onto. I'm counting down the days till his two are gone but it breaks my heart while I'm wishing for them to be gone I'm wishing to speed up my time with my babies.