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I think I'm being stalked

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About 2 mths ago I adpoted from a Boxer Rescue a boxer dog. SO and I didn't tell the kids we got a new dog. We wanted to surprise them when they got here for spring break.....

SO was talking to his kids last night on the phone (they will be here tonight for Spring Break Week). The girl 7 said she "hated boxers" as soon as she got on the phone with her Dad. Dad asked her why she thought we got a boxer, and she said that her brother (12) had told her. Dad just told he that Brother had a wild imagination, and basically what did brother know (sort of as a joke), and that was that about the dog.

Afterwards SO was telling me about this, and we thought it was really really odd that the kids one knew we had a new dog, and two they knew excatly what kind of dog we got.

BM has a history of stalking. SO had a 1 year protective order for her stalking his home after their divorce, and her getting a job at SO's bank to look up his bank records which she was charged for since she moved around funds.

Since we moved to where we live now she has befriended this lady who does those "passion parties" and has her listed as a witness with her case. (Keep this in mind BM nor her family are from the city we live in, BM lives over 1100 miles away) This lady also called my cell phone during Christmas break wanting to wish the kids Merry Christmas. SO had told BM that grandparents could call and wish them Merry Christmas, not any of her friends. Then this woman calls me? I guess BM gave her my number she must of gotten from her son's cell phone\or bill. Then last court hearing charges were filed on BM for Criminal Mischief for breaking into my car and slashing my seats. There was video survalliance of her and her friends.

I didn't post on face book or anyother social media about the dog, so either the boy is a good guesser or we are being watched and someone slipped up.

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Why do people care!? MOVE ON PEOPLE! I swear I'm so busy with work and my own child, and LIFE, who has time to devote to checking up on other people! I just don't get that!

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We live in a gated community now, but I see people tag along behind other cars all the time trying to make it through the gate before it closes, and I own guns. Our house has an alarm system, and I think outdoor cameras on the property would be a good idea. Thanks! We had them at our last residence before we moved because our drive way was really long, and they were at the gate at the end of the drive.