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Lost my Temper SOOO BAD

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I want to start off I feel terrible! But I totally lost my temper with my SO's 12 year old son tonight. First of all we had court today that was postponed till tomorrow SO didn't even show up the lawyer said he was on standby so he went to work instead as normal. Something about since Friday is a holiday it's messed up the docket. Anyway's so BM is in town first time since Christmas. We just bought a new car about 1mth ago. Haven't even got our plates in yet.

Am I wrong?

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Ok so SO's kids flew in for spring break on Friday. Things are going well since they've been here. We have a court date today, so keeping fingers crossed! But here it is.

I have a VA doctor’s appointment this week. Originally when I scheduled it my SO was going to take an early lunch come home, and watches HIS kids while I went to the doctor. I've waited on this appointment since the latter part of Dec! Yeah the VA is SLOW!

Forcing Activies to make her look like a "good" Mom

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Ok so when the kids lived with us we stayed busy we were doing outings as a family, movies, aquariums, zoo, museums, etc… Even if we didn’t go out we did tent night inside our living room, or back yard camping. SO and I both enjoy being out doing things as a family. We moved to our current city in Oct 2011, and BM took the kids in summer 2012, during that time we had done all the above listed some multiple times.

what's for dinner at BM's?!

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So in my house we cook food from scratch nothing out of a box or frozen pre-packed meals like that. Both I and my SO enjoy cooking. It annoys me to no end to hear what SO’s kids eat at their mother’s house. I know not everyone has time to cook, but come on at least once a week something healthy… is that too much for a stay at home mom to do for her family? I’m probably offending people, but please don’t take it personally I just can’t stand our lazy BM LOL! :sick:

BM emails our lawyer

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I've been meaning to post this forever, but I keep forgetting till now. Our BM emails - forwards - CC's – her ex's attorney (my fiancé’s)!

What world would you do that on, and find it acceptable? Apparently our BM thinks she's so competent, so righteous she is allowed, and thinks it's a good idea. She's been doing this since after Christmas visitation. Are you sitting around, and thinking, “gee I think I’ll save the ol’ ex some trouble, and just send it to his attorney first, you know since I’m sending out the email anyways?????”

Therapy Concerns?

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Is anyone afraid of going to see a therapist or anything like that because of BM and the court?

In my own custody battle I’ve used my diagnosed bi-polar ex’s mental health records against him, and we are using BM own against her in court.

I am guarded and mindful that not everything is secret and safe with a counselor, and this to could be used against me in court either by my own ex-husband, or one day if we get married his ex wife. I hate living like this! Sad

BM "new" lawyer

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Ok so last time we went to court BM had her lawyer, and her lawyer had like a trainee with her. Both could talk in the court room, and it was like she had two lawyers instead of one on her side!

Good news!

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