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As per previous blog SD is bad at BM house so daddy comes and saves her. Yay for me because now she is staying with us for a few days because she needs a break from her mother. SD is 10 and she needs discipline because she is little bitch at BM (still not my problem).
So instead of getting the discipline she needs by BM DH just bails her out. I am so fucking sick of it. Now i get her at home with me as well as SS13 because he came along for the ride. I get to look after them and drive them places, BM gets a week off with CS pay.
My mom broke her foot a month or so ago. She broke so bad that the doc will not let her even on crutches! He wants her in a wheel chair. So mom has been bummed about not being able to decorate. Dad isn't too hot on having to do it. So I told her I would come and do it for her. Although I really like to do it so the more the better. }:)
So, I am at work and my mother calls me. SS22 has called her and told her that he is having a friend of his "stop by" to go up to "his room" and get his game system. Mom calls me because she doesn't want this kid coming in the house when no one but her is home, but she never wants to tell anyone no so she makes me tell her to tell them no and then she can blame it on me and no one ever gets mad at her. (nice that I am her scape goat, right? LOL) But anyway, so I ask her, "Why can he not come get it himself?" She said that he told her he didn't have enough gas.
I always grew up with the thought that family is family no matter what. Now I feel like in my house I have two families; 1 is me and my husband and 1 is my husband and his 2 kids. They act as if they don't want me to be around just put up with me. Now my husband and I are fighting because I don't want to take his kids to my parents house for the holidays. I hate myself for saying that I don't want them to have a relationship with my side of the family but I really don't feel like they are my kids, not even stepkids.
Well, it’s time for a little update on the adult loser step kids in my life.
I’ll start with a happy note! The SS34 (35 next month) did indeed move out to his own place the 1st of November!!! (only a month late) I haven’t been there, but I hear it’s a pit. He doesn’t really seem to mind too much and that is good because I made it clear that he’s not moving back with us if things fall apart or he doesn’t pay his bills. I think he’s finally starting to realize that it is only a stepping-stone to better things; or he pays lip service to that idea pretty well.
I dont know what to do. I have told you before that my skids have lied about me lied to me about other people and then told me they didnt like me never had and never will. :? With all that I havent opened my pocket book to them dont take them to do fun stuff, just thought if you dont like me why the HELL am I going to spend MY money on your butts. Me and my DH have talked before about me not wanting to do a whole lot with them cause of the actions that they have had, he agreed which was a shock those are his little girls!
Do you ever get to the point that you're just mentally exahsted with dealing with a person. I have been dealing with my BF's jelous ex-wife for almost a year now, and it just keeps going. It's like the annoying little fly that regardless of how many times you swat at it, it just comes back.
Some brief background: My dad had an affair with (now) SM when I was in high school. Parents split. Mom would still take my dad back in a heartbeat...is still hurt and has never really moved on. Dad and SM are now married and incredibly happy. She is a part of my life now. It's been 12 YEARS since the divorce. 3 years ago, my sister got married and there were some bad words exchanged between my mom and SM's best friend. It caused a lot of tears that night for both my mom and my SM.
It seems like every three or four months or so, we are having to remind MIL that she is the mother and not the wife. I have no idea what make s her think that she can make decisions that impact my household without my consent, but it ain't happening.
SO has decided to go to the hearing. But I need to minimize my stress right now since I just had an embryo transfer.
The hearing is in front of a "juvenile committee" which serves as an alternative to municipal court for kids with no prior offenses. SS16 was picked up trespassing at 4AM in the next town. In addition he's been having all kinds of attitude and behavior problems over the last 6 to 8 months.
SO is going to tell the committee that SO believes SS has a problem and needs some kind of program to straighten him out, either community service, counseling, or both.
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