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My FDH is definitely a negative person. I love him dearly, and he does try to be more positive when I point it out, but it usually only lasts a couple of hours. It could be a gorgeous day outside and he WILL find something wrong with it.... I'm usually a very positive person. I realize that life can suck at times, but I do try to find the 'good' in things, although there are times it takes me a little while to do so.
:jawdrop:
Well, okay, not so much :jawdrop: DH and I have know for years that BM is a nasty piece of work, and we've watched her get progressively nastier as SD14 has started thinking for herself and stopped being a child.
This is my first post about my DH's ex. For the most part, I don't think about her at all. But she's a real tool!!
BACKGROUND: I moved in with DH. Only SS22lived with him at the time. We married and within the next month, his daughter moved in too.
SD16 was living with BM until BM's live-in BF invited SD16 to participate in oral sex (he sent her a text). He's a cop.
Now I live with both skids! Whatever.
DH still pays BM child support; this has been since June.
DH and I just found out today that BM has put SD8 on antidepressants. She's been on them for a few weeks. BM says that this is because she's been acting out. By acting out, she means she's caught her stealing twice and that SD8 has been more defiant than usual.
I have never blogged before. I am a stepmom to a wonderful 9 year old girl. However, she has daddy wrapped around her finger like you wouldn't believe! When it's just her and I, she's wonderful, well behaved, happy and even mature for her age. But when dad's around, she's whiny, asks to be waited on, manipulates, lies, and acts like she's 2. I'm on the outside looking in and see these 2 different sides of her. Daddy just caters to her like she's a princess, despite discussions we've had about how she's acting.
So this is my First blog. I only have a few mins so I will add a back story later. I have a SS4 who lives with us most of the time. His mom is EOW now because he started school this year. He was fairly difficult to potty train Mostly I think because he goes from House to House. However he had not pooped his pants for at least 8mo or so and then before school started he spent and entire week with his BM uninterupted for the first time since she left him when he was 14mo.
BM's been lying to us, to our daycare provider, and to her daughter's bio dad.
About a year ago, when SD5 (not fiance's actual daughter) and SS3 first started going to this new daycare, I remember DF remarking that BM put his name as SD's biological father. He kind of shrugged it off. About a month or two ago, after some strange comments from other daycare parents, I told DF that I don't think daycare knows that SD has a "real" dad and it's not you! He shrugged it off again, saying that he was sure they knew.
It is funny. Yes, I'm pissed, but I can admit its funny. And get this- Loghead tried to write the calves off as an "anniversary present." I don't know who is crazier- him or me, for marrying him?!
Goodness, when we met he was all "straight laced" business man type, but he has turned into a Green Acres kinda guy. Wanted the kids to have the same kind of upbringing on a farm (which he always described as though he hated) so 5 years ago, we moved back to the town where he was raised, and got this place, five minutes down the road from his parents.
Well, SS finally pushed me too far and I let lose on DH. He broke something in my house that should have been avoided. He has been told over and over not to do a certain something and he just continued until he finally broke it. I was livid! DH was livid, but I finally told DH a lot of what was bottled up over the last several months. I have been disengaged, but SS is jerking around with the house stuff now. He listens to nothing!
It went ok except they moved the location and bm didn't bother telling us! We went to another game and was confused, dh called her and well we were at the wrong game! Dh told the ticket office what happened and he didn't even think twice and gave us our money back said he hears that a lot!
So we get to the right game and we sit one row up from them b/c bm's sis and her dh was there and wanted to talk to us. Bm was nice about everything to our face and even texted dh to tell him to tell me that she enjoyed talking to me. :sick: