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Submitted by Sweet T on Thu, 04/28/2016 - 2:42pm

So here is a good one for you all. My oldest former stepson is graduating from high school. He gets 5 tickets. His mom has been with her fiance now for 11 years and has a great relationship with SS. STepson has two sets of grand parents and has asked ex DH's parents who live in Florida for the grandfather to present him with his scholarship award. So I am assuming that one or two of the tickets will go to them leaving BM's parents who live an hour away off the list ( SS is very close to them )

Proud of my son

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Submitted by Sweet T on Thu, 04/14/2016 - 1:31pm

As most of you know my ex is mentally ill and was abusive to me. It is kind of interesting because I think he has held it together these days in front of his GF. As far as I am concerned that is great because the GF appears to be really nice and BS likes her a lot. My former steps say she is nice, but like all of us are afraid he won't be able to keep it up and will treat her the way he did me and ex-wife#1.

Thoughts ladies

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Submitted by Sweet T on Mon, 03/14/2016 - 1:30pm

If your non custodial ex was asking your 8 year old if he wanted to live with him WWYD?

My ex has started asking our 8 year old who I have physical custody of and he only has EOWend & holidays if he wanted to live with him and his GF. When BS told me this he said he just replied ok as he didn't want to make his dad angry and begged me not to say anything. I told him if dad asks again tell him that is a grown up thing and he needs to talk to mom.

Man my ex has big balls

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Submitted by Sweet T on Mon, 07/13/2015 - 9:12am

So this weekend was BS's 8th birthday. Per the decree birthdays are shared, but to what extent it diesn't say. So the good thing is the way our schedule is it will be 7 more years till BS's birthday falls on his weekend. Last year the 3 of us were able to go out to dinner together, of course last year he was trying to date me and other women so he was much nicer to me.

Update to the insanity

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Submitted by Sweet T on Tue, 07/07/2015 - 8:18am

So one of the really great things about being good friends with BM1 is the fact that my stepsons tell her all the crap that transpires so I get a accurate view of the weekend. Additionally I know that my stepsons ( former ...but they always say I will always be their step mom so screw it) watch over their brother and their mom reminds them of the things that need to be done, like sunscreen ect... I always treated BM with the respect I would have wanted because some day I knew there would be weddings and grandchildren and I never wanted their to be issues.

Why does everything have to be difficult!!!

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Submitted by Sweet T on Thu, 07/02/2015 - 11:56am

So ex crazy asshole has never acknowledged that I am being generous and letting him get BS tonight verses 9am like the decree says...even though I emailed him that section and he totally ignores it. Now he sends me this email telling me that his GF wants to go look at 3 houses tonight and wants him there to point out things she may miss and he has to be back to meet her no later than 6pm ( underlined) so I need to have BS read to take off the minute he arrives.If I do this I can pick BS up at 6 pm verses 6 but he hates to give up that hour. ( normal non holiday pick up is 5pm)

Manipulative scumbag comes to mind

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Submitted by Sweet T on Tue, 06/30/2015 - 8:12am

So yesterday he sends me this big long diatribe that if you are a stranger looking in you might think was a nice attempt but if you know how he opperates you would know what the agenda was.

He made a huge point if telling me SS15 had started drivers ED. I knew this as SS15 and BM1 had told me this. He went on to say:

Update to last night

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Submitted by Sweet T on Fri, 06/26/2015 - 10:36am

Well he is definitely minding his P's and Q's. He did take BS to watch SS15 play ball and BM1 said he was keeping a close eye on the clock. He knows. BS had a nice time and does want the EO Thursday. I will not do the rotating Mon/Thursday that he wants...not happening as it is disruptive and I hated it with my skids. Plus he is playing his A game, but that won't last and then taking it away will be a bigger fight.

Argh!! Feeling stressed

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Submitted by Sweet T on Thu, 06/25/2015 - 12:34pm

So tonight is supposed to be the night where we are trying our experiment where I am letting crazy ex come and take BS almost 8 from 6 to 8pm. He only agreed to every other weekend when we divorced but has hounded me like crazy for more time even though he lives 45 minutes away in no traffic and works till 5pm. He had already asked me to please have him fed becase he would be there so late. Well on on Tuesday he never responded to my last email on something and he never answered BS's court ordered phone calls or returned his messages. I figured the ball was in his court we did our part.

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