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Question, can you just drag your ex into mediation because you don't like the custody agreement you signed a year ago?

Crazy bastard is now threatening me with mediation because he has a list of things he wants that he didn't agree t o in the decree a year ago.

My IUD slipped -OT

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So lately we have had a lot of lady part talks so I thought I would share. I have had a IUD for 7 years now ( this is my second). WIth the first one while I was married to crazy ex there wasn't a whole lot of using the Vajajay for recreational purposes. ( who wants to have sex with a crazy lazy person who doesn't bathe on weekends ) I have the IUD in because otherwise I menstrate constantly and this keeps me period free. When I had the old one taken out the family practice couldn't get the new one in and I had to have the OB do it.

Happy anniversary to me!!!!!!

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Today is the one year anniversary to the ending of my marriage. For all of you putting up with crappy relationships with men who are incapeable of truly being a partner you deserve better. Quit making excuses and make yourself a priority! Show your children how strong you are and create the example and the life you want to live with them.

Need to bitch

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Totally non step related.

So my sister is married to a wealthy guy, lives in a million dollar plus house in CA. Two years ago when she moved she did hire movers BUT my parents came out there and help pack her and manage the move and the unpacking process. Let me point out, my sister doesn't work and never has to again and has a great husband and unlimited resources.

Life is awesome

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I just thought I would stop in and report on life outside of the blender...it is awesome.

Crazy ex is still awful and pulling all sorts of crap. He is either trying to get in my pants or hates me and is trying to dictate things. He just broke up with what I think must be GF #7.

BS7 is doing amazing... therapy was so worth it. We still have our moments and he will always be a strong willed kid, but wow, what a difference.

Work is crazy...couting down till 3pm when I can get the heck out of here.

Badgers me for more time, doesn't take what he has!

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My crazy ex is relentless about wanting Wed night visitation which he does not have as a part of our custody agreement. The a$$hole must bring it up at least twice a month. However the last 4 weekends that he has had BS7, I have had to take BS for at least part of ex's weekends.

This weekend BS was invited to a birthday party which ex first said no to. His nephew is having his first birthday party. Out of the blue he changed his mind only if we could work out the driving ( ie I do it all) and if I started being a whole lot nicer to him ( give in to all his crazy demands ).

Dinner out with my former step kids

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So Tuesday night my former stepsons and I along with my BS7 went and had their pictures taken together for x mas gifts. I had the two boys done seperately as well for their mom ( I am close friends with their BM) and I plan on giving crazy ex a picture as well from the kids. I actually had their photo done alone with me as well. BS 7 and I did our own family photo and I did one of me alone as well for my parents... and I guess my BF wants one.

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