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update to ss wanting to meet dh alone.

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Ss16 was supposedbto meet with dh last but nothingbfrom him. Dh tried to call but nothing. Interesting huh i mean from someone that insisted he wanted to spend time with dad but when it came down to it nothing.

I dont know really what to make of it but i can tell you it has nothing to with wanting to.spend time with dad.

update to the lump under dhs arm.

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I just heard the results and they dont know what it is. They want him to have a cat scan. She said it is not a limph node but they want to do the cat scan to see what it is.

I am so scard and crying right now i dont know what to do. Dh doesnt want anyone to know yet til they know for sure but im going crazy with no one to talk too.

Doss anyone know what this means or possiblities??? Sad

disengaging????

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I get diaengaging to make your dh step up and parent his kids and to stay away from bm. But what i dont get is to be disengaged about what your dh does when he is alone with kids . Such as if they trash me or is being disrepectful to me or hurtful to me or my kids.

ok another update to why this bothets me ss excludibg

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Ok soblast night dh was supposed to see ss16 but forgot about ss1e g dh told ss16 he can meet hihem at the game. Ss16 wanted to know if i would ne there too. Dh said yes as ss13 wanted me there. Ss16 said no how about thursday.

So if anyone has ant doubts that ss16 has no problem with me.

He is excluding me on purpose and i dont like it at alln i have done nothing to deserve this disrepect. I do NOT exclude them on anything when they are here. Of course we do things without them but always when they are with there mom.

update to ehy is this bothering me

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To refresh everyone ss16 doesnt want me around when he sees dh. He was to meet up tonight instead.

Well tonight is ss13 last game and dh already told him he would be at this game. So that means that ss16 will not be seeing dh alone tonight and it was requested i come too.

So i think ss16 has a problem with me and i want to know what it is.

why is this bothing me?

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Ss16 called dh and wanted to spend some tine with dh and dh told him that we me and dh are in town and we can meet a a resturant. Ss16 said no he wanted it to be just him and dh so they set it up for a time that om at work.

This bothers me b/c i feel excluded on purpose and i have no right to with ss16 or he doesnt want me around or some timg. What shouldvi do tell dh how i feel but then he does have a right ro spend some 1 on 1 with him ugh!

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