BM talked to DH on Friday. It's her month to have SS14, but he had a Baseball game Friday night, which she refused to bring him to, and she claimed he didn't want to go, so she wouldn't let DH pick him up for it. In the process of the conversation, she told DH that she might be getting remarried and moving to Europe in November. YEA!!! (WARNING THE FOLLOWING INFO IS ALL HEARSAY FROM FAIRLY RELIABLE SOURCES AND I'M FILLING IN SOME BLANKS ON MY OWN) Turns out that she's been dating this guy for 2 months long distance from Poland.

Please help me...when deciding to end my relationship with ex-boyf I was always honest when I said I loved him always..but the 3 skids were the issue-and being rational either I accept him and his family as a package or not at all..

SD21 likes to call/text DH during the night. I've talked with him about this, because I wake up every time she does it. He said that he would tell her to stop doing it unless it's an emergency. Now, I don't know what he or she considers an emergency but it must be different from my definition because she keeps doing it. It's my opinion that if it's after 10 p.m., unless she's in the emergency room at the hospital, it can wait until morning. Well, she did it again tonight. We had just fallen asleep when I was awaken to the sound of his phone vibrating on the nightstand at 1130.

If it's not too personal, I was wondering what you liked or didn't like about your step parents, especially step moms, as far as how they acted towards you? I have been doing a lot of self reflection lately as to how I've acted in the past, and I would like to make the best effort I can to have a good relationship with my SD's. And I thought it might help to look at it from their point of view.

instead of coming into our room to get socks out of our drawer.I told fiance,maybe you could buy him some socks and then realizing what I had said,changed it to,you know what why can't he buy his own FLIPPIN SOCKS?Crap,they've brainwashed me into thinking he's a freakin kid!

Today the kids left with BM for the summer.
I am really trying to just enjoy DH but I am scared.
And what the heck is this pain in my chest? Those little snots have touched me so deeply that I can't seem to bear being without them.
OUCH.

Just found out SD11 will NOT be spending the summer with us! H asked BM to contibute to the childcare bill & just as I suspected she said it was too much money & decided to put her in another childcare program by her house the was MUCH cheaper & H will b contibuting to that instead.

Well, I did it. I finally had the talk I'd been planning to have w/H, only it didn't go quite as planned. I just said things weren't working & I didn't want to live like this anymore, & we never got to the "why" because he just agreed that we should separate.

There are so many events that have happened over the past several years that have lead up to this point. I will say that I am sorry if it seems like I am jumping all over and I will attempt to maintain a direct course. (Just think of it as one of those movies that jump backwards and then forward again)

My first entry on the site. I thought that I would give you a little background. I am searching for support and information. I am the mother of 6 children and as of October we will also have our 1st grandchild. My husband and I have been together for almost 10 years, we were show chior dance partners in high school, he a wrestler and I a cheerleader, both of us were very active in school, worked since we were 14 years old and have a history of simular backgrounds. BUT there was not a love interest during that period of our lives.