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Thinks at 23 he could buy his own stupid socks.....

Flippinexhausted's picture

instead of coming into our room to get socks out of our drawer.I told fiance,maybe you could buy him some socks and then realizing what I had said,changed it to,you know what why can't he buy his own FLIPPIN SOCKS?Crap,they've brainwashed me into thinking he's a freakin kid!

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cyberwoman's picture

I have similar issues with ss23 who thinks (KNOWS?) he is allowed anything and everything. I think he has a sick pathological need to prove to himself daddy loves him so much he has no boundaries. That's the only explanation I can come up with why he would repeatedly push the envelope with stupid $hit like coming into our bedroom while we are asleep and take "things".

Flippinexhausted's picture

I know this freeloader has no respect for me,let alone his dad,but after realizing what I had said I thought to myself that is why my fiance's family treats him like a child and pretends he can do no wrong,they are so used to it.Seriously people I avoid this loser like the plague in my own house.I don't confronte him anymore because I'm afraid that when I do,I might physically attack him.I figure I can get a few punches in before someone rips me off of him,maybe 3 or 4 if I hit him the first 2 times quietly.

cyberwoman's picture

This is mind boggling to me as well. My SS is also an outcast by the real world. He has been fired by all employers is kicked out by every roommate he ever had, girls avoid him like the plague, and he has no marketable skills. This young man has no honor, no integrity what so ever and Daddy simply refuses to see it. I just don't get it.

Flippinexhausted's picture

I belong to THAT club too,but my ss's whole family treats him the same way as DF,When he comes out of the bathroom I wait for the whole family to clap cuz he pottied like a big boy!

buttercookie's picture

I agree he should buy his own socks, I have more of an issue with him coming in your room taking anything socks or anything else, Not only should he provide his own basic necessities at this age but he should respect your space too

Flippinexhausted's picture

Your ALL right,and to the mom that's 24,I know what you mean,I was a mom at 19 and by 23 had 3 kids,a job,bills to pay and was responsible for all 4 of us.I agree Buttercookie and when my 17 year old son does something wrong,I let him have it,even tho DF thinks it's not a big deal,I finally told him maybe it's not a big deal to you but I don't want my kid turning into an adult like yours.It's a harder battle when my kids see his idiot son doing stupid stuff.!But my cold shoulder to my stepson..I think is paying off,I have a feeling he'll be leaving really soon.He hasn't been coming home at night,so I'm thinking he's trying to wiggle his way into someone else's house....Geez,I can only hope!

Flippinexhausted's picture

and btw,I tried the white socks with the pink feet in them,I know he wore them because when I went to do laundry I couldn't find half of my socks,so I went downstairs and he had worn them and left them in a pile.I also considered hot pink sold socks,but the stupid head wears purple pants like he's a member of the Cure,so I don't think he would really care.He thinks he's the next Eminem,makes rap videos and posts them on Youtube,he's 23!