I can not stand this up and down thing with my SD9. One day she's nice and the next, shes like a little Satan. I look directly into this childs eyes while she is doing something mean spirited, and there is no emotion.

DH and I are looking at this new year in a different light, we refuse to let anything from the past that his BM has done affect us.......Ladies lets stand up and forget about these crazy BM's in 2010....I was watching a t.v show this morning and this couple really had me thinking about my marriage and what i watned it to continue to be....we are the ones who have these men in our house and dont let these BM's or any fears of the past ruin what we can achieve with our men....

Johnandhelenburns.com (talk about overcoming a lot)

So I've been married to my husband for almost two year. And with him came two step kids that I have a hard time liking. And it seems it will never get better. I just don't know what to do I love my husband and want to be with him I even what to have a baby with him now is that crazy of me when I don't even like his kids? HELP do I stay or do I go??????

We have snow, on the south coast of England we rarely get snow as it is, and we've not had anything this heavy since 1963 apparently, so we're really not geared up to deal with it. There isn't enough grit to do all the roads, the pavements are pretty horrible as the snow compacted as it was walked on and then froze so it's essentially 2 inches of ice, and I've had 3 days without my office opening & all the schools have been closed.

This is driving me out of my mind. First of all, BM has had SS in a certain activity for almost a year that conveniently interrupts and cancels out our visitation quite frequently. Now hes going on a "camping trip" (yes, in the middle of winter???) and will miss an entire weekend with us, particularly a weekend that I have had scheduled us to have a family picture taken for a month!!! Of course we cant ask him not to go, because he wants to go, that is if there is even a camping trip. He is constantly missing days and weekends with us because of activities with this organization.

This is what bothers me the most. I never dated a man with kids before, much less, got engaged to one! I never had to worry about the "other woman" being involved with my life. (except their mothers, of course!) This "other woman" gets to request favors, make demands, and make decisions that affect my daily life.

What exactly am I supposed to say to DH when he asks me this?

When I know from my counseling sessions that pretty much the answer to this question is "when the kids aren't around"???

I am happy at work, with my friends, with family- just not the family that live in my house! We are happy together when the skids are gone; when it's just the 3 of us- him, me and our son.

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I am just married at 21 and my husband has a child that is now 5. Although i love my husband I am questing if our relationship is worth all the pain. I can't seem to accept her and i don't know if i will. Is it better to give it time (however it seems that time is making it worse). I also feel as though i am keeping him from being the super dady he wants to be. Is it better to walk away now or wait years until i just deal with it, until i get hardened to the point where there is no more pain?

For anyone who has a Facebook account, you may have noticed several females changing their status to a color. It's for breast cancer awareness, and honestly confusing the men which is quite entertaining! (sorry to guys on this site, just feel special that you're now an insider!) Post your bra color and show your support!