I keep thinking about her and how she's doing. If anyone has an update please post.
Thanks

Hi Can any one help me through this awful mess.

I was single and lived with my daughter (now six) for two years after my marriage broke down. At the end of my relationship I was in such a bad place - I had a late termination which was done incorrectly so I suffered a harrowing miscarriage, I lost two of my best friends one in a car crash and the other to cancer and then my brother was diagnosed with MS. All in all it was a very bad time.

My husband's ex comes to pick up the kids and when she does she goes and runs around on our property and plays with the kids instead of doing it at her house. Both of us are not at home, she picks up the kids and they told us they were goofing off with their mom in the backyard. This has happened on several occasions. Then a few months back she used our hose to wash something off of her car. I just want to make sure she is not coming in the house when we are not home.

They are placing him a mental ward. Hopefully they will put him on the right medication and make him act like a normal person. I feel nothing but contempt for the boy, he deserves every thing he gets. I cant help the way that I feel, and I dont feel bad for feeling the way that I do. He has just pushed me to far. I was with my daughters dad for almost 9 years, he had bipolar. and was hard to deal with some times. Nothing to what this boy has acted like. I hope they break him and his true colors come out.

I have been in denial on this and avoiding updating the Stalker community on the status of my Son (SS-17).

The good news is that I have been able to prevent his Mother from killing him or causing him permanent disfigurement by skinning him alive or slow roasting him like a brisket on a Texas BBQ pit.

Mediation was a mess. SS10 has been with us since the beginning of Oct. and BM just handed him over like it was nothing. no agreement, nothing, just on the word that she would see him every other sat and sun. it went fine til my fiance went for child support. then she wants him 50/50. in my personal opinion is it so she does not have to pay child support (or at least the full amount).

So Im about sick of my SD11's lying and then she gets away with it. It's like im the only one who see's what she does. My DH is a back seat parent when it comes to SD. He never notices when SD is being rude or when she lies, but is real quick to punish my children. It causes a lot of fighting between us because eventually I get fed up and say something.

As you know, I am a BM. My son does have a SM. She is SM #3 officially, 4 if you count GF's! From the BM point of view there are just some things that I don't need from the SM.

The kitty was only 9 months old and our murderous asshole neighbor shot him to death. I've already informed the sheriff's office and the DA. The investigators brought him in and he admitted to it. The DA said it looks like a state jail felony.

So we finally got SS's records from his eye doctor, and it turns out he has an eye disease that BF knew nothing about! I have worked in ophthalmology for 5 years - I'm actually a surgery coordinator for a prominent eye surgeon.