So, BM told FDH that she got the eviction notice (Thanks dumbass, your landlord called US first). SHe told him she was moving, but didn't know where and she would let him know when she figured it out.

THAT TOOK OVER 30 MINUTES!!!!!

Bonus:
FDH got into her house....its disgusting
She told him she quit her job (for the 4th time in 4 months)
She doesn't have a car

We offered to take the kids AND PAY HER, just to "let her get back on her feet". Her response: "It's not an option, quit bringing it up" Apparently, the boss that wrote the bad check and from whom she quit her job is letting her move in to his house because he is moving in with his new girlfriend....we shall see

He has a decent record.....

Why can't this woman take responsibility for her kids and admit that she is a shitty mom!