Aniki's picture

SD21 claims she was an abused child...

...because she got yelled at a couple of times.

I have no words... Where's the tequila??

fairyo's picture

Sorry but I drank it... I was

Sorry but I drank it... I was so traumatised by this poor child's life. I hope she gets the therapy she needs ha ha!

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Aniki's picture

Damm!t, fairyo. I was

Damm!t, fairyo. I was planning to save the Wild Turkey. Sigh...

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I decided to stop reaching out. It's just asking to get my hand slapped. ~Aniki

The juice ain't worth the squeeze. ~SourGrapes

Shun her like an Amish chick who got caught wearing a thong. ~Echo

thinkthrice's picture

The Girhippo claims the same

The Girhippo claims the same about the skids because Chef disciplined them by putting them in time out. . . .(drum roll please). . . . .(wait for it). . . . ONCE!!!

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Aniki's picture

NOT TIME OUT!!!!!!! Oh, the

NOT TIME OUT!!!!!!!

Oh, the absolute HORROR!

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I decided to stop reaching out. It's just asking to get my hand slapped. ~Aniki

The juice ain't worth the squeeze. ~SourGrapes

Shun her like an Amish chick who got caught wearing a thong. ~Echo

thinkthrice's picture

Yep and the CPS worker in our

Yep and the CPS worker in our county came out and told us that you can only put children in time out one minute per year of age.

We had put them in time out for 15 minutes.

That was abuse according the the CPS report launched by the Girhippo.

So basically we were only to put SD in time out for 9 minutes because she was 9 years old.

Hell I remember being locked in my room for the entire day. No TV, no nothing.

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Aniki's picture

What a crock of crap!! No

What a crock of crap!! No wonder this generation is a bunch of namby-pamby, whiny wusses. Barf! Barf! Barf!

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I decided to stop reaching out. It's just asking to get my hand slapped. ~Aniki

The juice ain't worth the squeeze. ~SourGrapes

Shun her like an Amish chick who got caught wearing a thong. ~Echo

thinkthrice's picture

yep!

yep!

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hereiam's picture

Oh, Jesus. Is she saying the

Oh, Jesus.

Is she saying the abuser is your DH? 'Cuz perhaps she should just stay away from her "abuser", then. Ya know, instead of asking him for money all of the time.

Aniki's picture

Oh, no. BioHo "abused" her,

Oh, no. BioHo "abused" her, too. In fact, BioHo luuuuuuurrrrvvvssss fighting and yelling, but typically with her boyfriend/husband. When 'Ho yelled at DH, he walked away and would not play her games. However, 'Ho and Mr. Pinhead have regular screamfests.

You know what? SD has come to our home several times and YELLED at DH. So she's guilty of abusing her father. Cool

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I decided to stop reaching out. It's just asking to get my hand slapped. ~Aniki

The juice ain't worth the squeeze. ~SourGrapes

Shun her like an Amish chick who got caught wearing a thong. ~Echo

MoominMama's picture

My DH actually said that to

My DH actually said that to SD then 20. She was the one always yelling and having a fit to get what she wanted. Passive aggressive non compliance with simple requests etc. After she accused him of 'psychological abuse' he actually replied to her email listing her behaviours and told her that she was actually the one abusing us and our goodwill.

Aniki's picture

Moomin, good for your DH!!

Moomin, good for your DH!!

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I decided to stop reaching out. It's just asking to get my hand slapped. ~Aniki

The juice ain't worth the squeeze. ~SourGrapes

Shun her like an Amish chick who got caught wearing a thong. ~Echo

ProbablyAlreadyInsane's picture

I. Hate. False. Abuse.

I. Hate. False. Abuse. Allegations.

It makes it so much harder for those who actually have been through it to get the help they really need to move on!

Also discipline isn't abuse. All these special snowflakes prancing around like they own the place and being told no means they're going to be emotionally scared for life. *eye roll*

Aniki's picture

I do, too, PA. SD is

I do, too, PA. SD is "scarring" herself, IMO. She did stupid sh!t and she got yelled at. Boo-fackin-hoo. She got spanked once, too. Call the Waaaaaaah-bulance!

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I decided to stop reaching out. It's just asking to get my hand slapped. ~Aniki

The juice ain't worth the squeeze. ~SourGrapes

Shun her like an Amish chick who got caught wearing a thong. ~Echo

ProbablyAlreadyInsane's picture

OH NO! Being spanked??? You

OH NO! Being spanked??? You mean someone told her no? 6 years of therapy minimum.

Bleck!

Aniki's picture

2-3 times a week for the

2-3 times a week for the first year!

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I decided to stop reaching out. It's just asking to get my hand slapped. ~Aniki

The juice ain't worth the squeeze. ~SourGrapes

Shun her like an Amish chick who got caught wearing a thong. ~Echo

ProbablyAlreadyInsane's picture

OH no! I'd probably say you

OH no! I'd probably say you might want to up it to 4-5 times a week at least! This kind of damage is going to take some serious attention!

Aniki's picture

She should spend the first 6

She should spend the first 6 months in a psych ward with several therapy sessions each day.

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I decided to stop reaching out. It's just asking to get my hand slapped. ~Aniki

The juice ain't worth the squeeze. ~SourGrapes

Shun her like an Amish chick who got caught wearing a thong. ~Echo

ProbablyAlreadyInsane's picture

Sounds perfect! Then she can

Sounds perfect! Then she can truly work through all this abuse. LMAO

queensway's picture

LMAO Is this the same girl

LMAO Is this the same girl who was planning a wedding without a boyfriend? Does she live on earth or some other planet? I never realized I was abused my whole freaking life. Laughing out loud My parents yelled at me all the time.

Aniki's picture

Yes, queensway! I am

Yes, queensway! I am beginning to think she's a Pod person and the real SD is being held captive for alien experiments.

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I decided to stop reaching out. It's just asking to get my hand slapped. ~Aniki

The juice ain't worth the squeeze. ~SourGrapes

Shun her like an Amish chick who got caught wearing a thong. ~Echo

CLove's picture

Yeah, Winona was accusing SO

Yeah, Winona was accusing SO of abusing her, because he yelled at her. If she listened, and did as he asked nicely, and without snotty commentary, perhaps there would have been no yelling.
But whats the fun in that?

And this is after her mother had choked her, body slammed her, called her a b!tch, and then slammed her against the wall.

I wonder if these people are programmed a certain way at school, or by the media, and then LOOK for things, and when they cant find them, project them on to any one available? Part of that victim mentality.

Right now, Winona SD18 has no communications with her father. Or mother, or cousins, or sister. EVERYONE is cut out. Problem is, she isnt really missed a huge amount by those she bullied (me and Munchkin).

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Hope is a 4 letter word.

Aniki's picture

Winona is whackadoodle!

Winona is whackadoodle!

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I decided to stop reaching out. It's just asking to get my hand slapped. ~Aniki

The juice ain't worth the squeeze. ~SourGrapes

Shun her like an Amish chick who got caught wearing a thong. ~Echo

CLove's picture

Like her Mother, TBM. Crazy

Like her Mother, TBM.
Crazy as a loon.

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Hope is a 4 letter word.

Aniki's picture

SD is becoming more like

SD is becoming more like BioHo every day. Barf! Barf!

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I decided to stop reaching out. It's just asking to get my hand slapped. ~Aniki

The juice ain't worth the squeeze. ~SourGrapes

Shun her like an Amish chick who got caught wearing a thong. ~Echo

SacrificialLamb's picture

Wonder how this poor

Wonder how this poor snowflake could have handled growing up in the days of when children were seen and not heard.

Aniki's picture

Lambie, I'm positive she'd be

Lambie, I'm positive she'd be living out her life in a padded room...

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I decided to stop reaching out. It's just asking to get my hand slapped. ~Aniki

The juice ain't worth the squeeze. ~SourGrapes

Shun her like an Amish chick who got caught wearing a thong. ~Echo

Dovina's picture

Or spare the rod spoil the

Or spare the rod spoil the child....as archaic as that is its now become spare the discipline worship the child.

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"I can't control your behavior...But I will not apologize for refusing to be disrespected or be mistreated. I have standards; step up or step out" ~ Steve Maraboli

thinkthrice's picture

THIS!

THIS!

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Author of "The Guilty Parent Trap"--Amazon Kindle

Aniki's picture

Sadly true, Dovina.

Sadly true, Dovina. Sad

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I decided to stop reaching out. It's just asking to get my hand slapped. ~Aniki

The juice ain't worth the squeeze. ~SourGrapes

Shun her like an Amish chick who got caught wearing a thong. ~Echo

robin333's picture

Well, please start a go fund

Well, please start a go fund me account to cover her therapy costs. That girl has suffered abuse rarely experienced by others. Forget the children that are starved, physically or sexually abused and those who have addicts for parents. They got nothing on SD whose parents yelled at her.

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"I've seen dogs with better manners." Aniki

"A healthy future depends on having productive members of society - not basement dwellers." Notasm3

Aniki's picture

What's sad, robin, is that SD

What's sad, robin, is that SD really DOES need therapy. Because she's f*cked in the head!!!

Absolutely vile that she considers one spanking and getting yelled at as abuse. She's a bloody idiot.

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I decided to stop reaching out. It's just asking to get my hand slapped. ~Aniki

The juice ain't worth the squeeze. ~SourGrapes

Shun her like an Amish chick who got caught wearing a thong. ~Echo

robin333's picture

You should know I’m still

You should know I’m still sobbing over how awful SD has had it. Nonstop tears streaming down my face that may never stop.

Victim mentality. Hope it’s a really skilled therapist.

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"I've seen dogs with better manners." Aniki

"A healthy future depends on having productive members of society - not basement dwellers." Notasm3

Aniki's picture

She needs a therapist will

She needs a therapist will who look at her, eyes bulging, then burst into uncontrolled laughter.

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I decided to stop reaching out. It's just asking to get my hand slapped. ~Aniki

The juice ain't worth the squeeze. ~SourGrapes

Shun her like an Amish chick who got caught wearing a thong. ~Echo

ESMOD's picture

My brother now likes to talk

My brother now likes to talk about how our dysfunctional parents basically screwed him up. I'm like.. the drugs probably didn't help. I mean, my parents were not perfect, but we have free will right?

Aniki's picture

I'd like to know how BioHo

I'd like to know how BioHo having 22 men move in and out of her home in a 2 year period didn't screw up SD and her siblings. Or the screamfests BioHo had with her fuddies and still has with Mr. Pinhead. I'm sure that having to chauffeur her younger siblings is especially cruel...

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I decided to stop reaching out. It's just asking to get my hand slapped. ~Aniki

The juice ain't worth the squeeze. ~SourGrapes

Shun her like an Amish chick who got caught wearing a thong. ~Echo

Ninji's picture

SS told his school he was

SS told his school he was afraid of us, especially me. Why...because he got yelled at.

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Puppies are like books...I wish I could have them all.

Dontfeedthetrolls's picture

WOW. I should have been taken

WOW. I should have been taken by CPS than. Seriously my mother has tried apologizing because she hit us with a spatula a few times. Well more than a few but DAMN. Just yelling?

I told my mom that she got me through childhood, I have a degree, a job, and am no in jail. She did pretty damn good shes 1 for 2. My sister still lives at home.

Whats SD trying to claim was the outcome of this "abuse"? Can she not work because of it? Is she traumatized and having flashbacks? THE POOR CHILD.

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Some days are hard but you just fight through them to get to the good ones.

Aniki's picture

DFTT, she got spanked once,

DFTT, she got spanked once, too!!

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I decided to stop reaching out. It's just asking to get my hand slapped. ~Aniki

The juice ain't worth the squeeze. ~SourGrapes

Shun her like an Amish chick who got caught wearing a thong. ~Echo

depressedme's picture

Aww does the precious need a

Aww does the precious need a holiday in Malibu and a bit fat cheque to make up for being yelled at?? You do realise these sds are delicate little flowers that need to be nurtured, coddled and pampered. I’m surprised she’s not rocking in a padded cell from the effects of her childhood!! Immediately give her $1000000 as compensation for her heartbreak so she can spend it on a decent therapist and shoes x

Aniki's picture

Shoes is where most of that

Shoes is where most of that money would go!

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I decided to stop reaching out. It's just asking to get my hand slapped. ~Aniki

The juice ain't worth the squeeze. ~SourGrapes

Shun her like an Amish chick who got caught wearing a thong. ~Echo

WTF...REALLY's picture

She is.....poor thing. Bring

She is.....poor thing. Bring her to me so I can hug her....poor little baby. Sticking out tongue

Barf!

Aniki's picture

Squeeze her 'til she poops?

Squeeze her 'til she poops? Eye-wink

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I decided to stop reaching out. It's just asking to get my hand slapped. ~Aniki

The juice ain't worth the squeeze. ~SourGrapes

Shun her like an Amish chick who got caught wearing a thong. ~Echo

thinkthrice's picture

THIS is abuse:

THIS is abuse: http://beta.latimes.com/opinion/op-ed/la-oe-coleman-brightbill-turpin-ho...

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Author of "The Guilty Parent Trap"--Amazon Kindle

Aniki's picture

Appalling, thinkthrice!!

Appalling, thinkthrice!! Pwecious wittle snowfwake SD needs to be submerged in therapy with these children. With her mouth SHUT. But I doubt listening to REAL abuse victims will get through her thick skull.

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I decided to stop reaching out. It's just asking to get my hand slapped. ~Aniki

The juice ain't worth the squeeze. ~SourGrapes

Shun her like an Amish chick who got caught wearing a thong. ~Echo

Acratopotes's picture

I knew it ...... blame the SM

I knew it ...... blame the SM as the abuser, they always abuse the special snow flakes Evil

I'm waiting for the day dear Aergia claims she's been abused cause her parents got divorced.....

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Blended family life turned me into a pirate....
All I want to do is drink Rum and stab people

Aniki's picture

Acra, it's been over 11 years

Acra, it's been over 11 years since DH and BioHo split. SD21 claims she is still "traumatized". As an adult, she has no one to blame but herself for not getting therapy to work through her freaking trauma. Stupid twunt.

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I decided to stop reaching out. It's just asking to get my hand slapped. ~Aniki

The juice ain't worth the squeeze. ~SourGrapes

Shun her like an Amish chick who got caught wearing a thong. ~Echo

Kes's picture

She sounds a bit like the

She sounds a bit like the Millenial snowflake in this job interview! Jawdropping!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=2&v=Uo0KjdDJr1c

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Veteran disengaged SM of 14 years. Underestimate me, that'll be fun.

MoominMama's picture

Thanks for linking that Kes,

Thanks for linking that Kes, was funny but scarily true.

Aniki's picture

The new wave of employee...

The new wave of employee... Shocked

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I decided to stop reaching out. It's just asking to get my hand slapped. ~Aniki

The juice ain't worth the squeeze. ~SourGrapes

Shun her like an Amish chick who got caught wearing a thong. ~Echo

MoominMama's picture

This 'abuse' thing is getting

This 'abuse' thing is getting out of hand. It's fuelled by the 'child centred' parenting style and the entitlement era. My DH was accused of being abusive by SD then 18'ish. It was all about revenge because she could not break us up. She was backed by BM and her cronies. My DH never once shouted at her, he is a mild man but very firm. She just didn't want to hear 'no' from him.

The worst part for us though was when they (SD backed by BM) got their flying monkey friends involved and we then started getting nasty fb messages, emails and threats. A lot of these people use the 'i've been abused' thing to bully people into doing what they want or to take revenge when they don't get things their way. It's a real shame because what happens is that people who really ARE being abused are less likely to be believed.

I find myself withdrawing from the world these days as I just don't understand it anymore.

Aniki's picture

It's been out of hand for a

It's been out of hand for a few years. "Child centered" parenting is a bunch of hooey. Those type of parents are the PROBLEM.
Here's your trophy for:
Participating
Losing
Being awake during class
NOT bullying (wondering if being honest constitutes bullying...)
Pooping in the toilet and NOT in your skivvies
Pooping in your skivvies and not smearing in on the wall
Putting your dirty dishes in the sink (that's a trophy AND a $25 gift certificate to McDonalds!!!)
Telling Mommy or Daddy that you have dirty laundry (of course you don't put it in the laundry room! parents will get it!!!)
Showing up for a job interview
Actually doing your job without being told or needing the boss to hold your hand while you do it

And so on...

Scares me to think these idiots will some day be running the world. (Where's they SOBBING emoji?!?)

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I decided to stop reaching out. It's just asking to get my hand slapped. ~Aniki

The juice ain't worth the squeeze. ~SourGrapes

Shun her like an Amish chick who got caught wearing a thong. ~Echo

Kes's picture

Sigh. Sometimes I am

Sigh. Sometimes I am thankful that I am 60 and will be gone in 20 years, goddess willing Eye-wink

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Veteran disengaged SM of 14 years. Underestimate me, that'll be fun.

Aniki's picture

Kes, I fear for a future run

Kes, I fear for a future run by these idiots. Sad

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I decided to stop reaching out. It's just asking to get my hand slapped. ~Aniki

The juice ain't worth the squeeze. ~SourGrapes

Shun her like an Amish chick who got caught wearing a thong. ~Echo