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As Predicted, the Girhippo Got YSS labeled "Learning Disabled--Other" Just As She did SD

thinkthrice's picture

Received the report in the mail that YSS 14.5 is officially "learning disabled--other" as a smokescreen for the Gir's free ranging style of BFF "parenting." When YSS was with us he had what we used to call "boy energy" when not zombified in front of the television/screens for hours on end.

This labeling visibly upset Chef as YSS was the "apple of his eye" for the longest time. Yeah he had behavior problems but that was due to a lack of rules and enforcement thereof.

Example: No one every told YSS at age almost 7 that you're not supposed to rip off all the control knobs on the display appliances, then throw them on the floor at the big box store. I was disengaged at that point but had it been my bios, they would have gotten a big scolding and then made to put the knobs back on.

Heck my son still remembers the consequences he got for mistakenly walking out of the grocery store holding a cookie and not paying for it first!

Unfortunately, Chef was scared shitless of the CPS worker Girhippo at the time and didn't want another CPS report for disciplining/training/guiding his children like the last time.

The Gir probably kept the same doctor after burning through a bunch of doctors (doctor shopping spree)way back when for SD, now 18.75.

Time to ladle anti-depressants and ADHD meds down YSS's throat. I'm sure she had been doing that anyway. Sounds like a scheme to continue collecting CS WELL past age 21 if you ask me.

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DaizyDuke's picture

Does she get Social Security benefits for skids that are "disabled"? I see this crap all the time in my school district, as a matter of a fact, I just finished up with a 21 year old MAN this year in the tutoring program because he refused to go to school, dad managed to get him an IEP years ago, and Dr's notes saying he couldn't go to school because of "headaches". So he was in my tutoring program for FOUR FUCKING YEARS! and STILL didn't graduate! I told dad 3 years ago, he was not going to graduate unless he went back to the classroom.. I mean duh... 2 hours of tutoring a day is no where near what they are getting in school... nope Dad had a hissy and tried to file a lawsuit against the school district saying that I was "discriminating." Whatever, that was bullshit and went nowhere.. but yep. The 21 year old man, just kept on coming, because daddy was making him because daddy wanted that Social Security money for as long as he could milk it. 21 year old man ended up with 16 of the 21.5 credits needed to graduate.. so no diploma. But again, that's not what dad wanted and we all knew it.

Freaking vermin. People like this make me sick

thinkthrice's picture

I have no idea, but I wouldn't put it past her since she knows the system inside and out AND she's a major league money grubber. Both SD and YSS got an IEP and are in AIS classes

thinkthrice's picture

Yes, but this is NYS where practically everyone is on the government teat in some form or another.

DaizyDuke's picture

Learning Disabilities and Social Security Law

While children's Social Security cases are generally harder to win than adult cases, disability benefits are available for children under 18 who suffer from serious physical or mental impairments. A child who has been diagnosed with a learning disability will be eligible for benefits if he or she suffers from certain "marked" (severe) or "extreme" functional limitations that are expected to last at least a year.

Children with learning disabilities typically struggle to keep pace academically with their peers. They may require more time to learn new concepts and acquire new skills. It is not uncommon for children with learning disabilities to score well below average on standardized tests. If a child's learning disabilities are severely limiting the child's ability to learn, complete tasks, and interact with others, Social Security may recognize that child as having a disability. But only the most severely affected children can expect to be granted disability benefits.

A significant fraction of children with learning disabilities have also been diagnosed with a psychiatric disorder such as Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) or a speech disorder. For those children with more than one diagnosis, Social Security will consider the combination of all their impairments in deciding whether to approve or deny their claim for benefits.

How Social Security Evaluates a Child's Limitations

Social Security will award disability benefits for a child with a specific learning disorder—or borderline intellectual functioning—if that child meets the requirements of Blue Book Listing 112.11 for neurodevelopmental disorders. This listing used to be only for ADHD, but in 2017, Social Security expanded it to include learning disabilities and tic disorders. Under this listing, a child must have medical documentation showing one of the following:
•ADHD symptoms:
◦frequent distractibility, difficulty sustaining attention, and problems organizing tasks, OR
◦hyperactive and impulsive behavior such as restlessness, difficulty waiting, difficulty staying still, or behaving as if being “driven by a motor.”
•Significant difficulties learning and using academic skills (found in learning disabilities), or
•Recurrent motor movement or vocalization (found in Tourette's syndrome or other tic disorders).

In addition to meeting one of these three sets of symptoms, the child must experience either an "extreme" limitation in one of the following areas or a "marked" (severe) limitation in two of the following areas:
•understanding, remembering, or applying information (ability to follow instructions, solve problems, use reason to make decisions)
•interacting with others (ability to cooperate, maintain friendships, handle conflicts, understand social cues)
•concentrating on tasks and maintaining pace (ability to complete tasks in a timely manner, ignore or avoid distractions, work close to others without distracting them), and
•adapting or managing oneself (ability to regulate emotions, control behavior, protect self from harm, maintain personal hygiene).

A "marked" limitation, according to Social Security's regulations, is one that seriously interferes with a child's ability to start or finish activities. It is a "more than moderate, but less than extreme" limitation. "Extreme" limitations are defined as interfering "very seriously" with a child's ability to independently start or finish activities.

DaizyDuke's picture

Without a doubt. Especially given her position, she would know all of this and know exactly what to have the Dr.s write to get that approved. And trust me there are Dr.'s out there that will hand these psychopath parents Rx's to give the school (or whoever) that say exactly what the parents have told them to say. It's disgusting.

mdh0596's picture

My former SD got SSI at age 8 for ADHD only... We (exDH and I) filed for it... as soon as it was approved, we submitted a letter stating SD was NOT disabled. We had to do it this way, because BM would've kept her on SSI until well....... forever. Took them forever to finally stop it, but it's now in exSD's file that she is definitely not disabled. All it takes to get the kid approved apparently is the right doctor saying they are disabled and no foreseeable change.

And, yes, BM was LIVID when she got the copy of the letter stating SD was not disabled.

thinkthrice's picture

Chef went to the school admin board to dispute the status for SD. He was told that the custodial parent will always overrule the NCP. The NCP's wishes "don't count."
I was there and heard every word.

GhostWhoCooksDinner's picture

OMG, this gives me flashbacks to BM and her crap. She did everything in her power to get both of her kids labeled with something...anything...that would "explain" their rotten grades and her rotten parenting. ADHD, ADD, Dyslexia, Math Disorder, Reading Disorder...you name it, she demanded that the school test them for everything. Nope, nada. Letting your kids miss 30-plus days of school every year (all on her custody time) and never making them do homework because you "don't believe in it" is their sole problem.

The younger boy was finally diagnosed with Adjustment Disorder, Anxiety Disorder, and Depression, but that was after she completely PASed him from DH and changed his name at 9 years old. No freaking wonder he's got issues. But then she could blame all his issues on that.