New here-Help SD19 is ruining my marriage
Lets start with tomorrow is my 40th Birthday and my husband is not speaking to me or my BD14. Last week my BD14 school class went on a field trip to a local University. My BD14 did not get to go because she had a class that she could not miss. The University that the school toured is the same University that my SD19 attends. Apparently some girls in my daughters class confronted her on thier return and told her that some "older girl student" recognized their school shirts and confronted them. She asked if they were from my daughters school and if the girls knew my daughter. They said yes that they knew her. This college student who is soon to be 20 yrs of age then proceeded to go on a rant about "how selfish" and "how spoiled" my daughter is. She then called her names and accused her of "stealing her dad from her and turning him against her". Yep you guessed it! This girl was SD19. She told anyone who would listen about how even my 14 yr old is. The girls were freaked out and told my daughter when they got back. I heard the story and immediately called the school and inforrmed the teacher as to what had happened. She didnt know anything about it and was very disturbed. I told DH when he got home from work and he was clearly angry. Now today he says that he spoke to SD19 and she denied the entire thing. She said those girls just picked her at random out of the thousands on that campus and they trashed my daughter and not the other way around. My problem with that is..these girls did not know my daughter has a step-sister, that she goes to that University and they sure didnt know about her daddy issues. Well DH is taking her side and is not speaking to me or my daughter. My birthday is tomorrow and our 6th wedding anniversary is Sunday and he isnt speaking to us at all. He finrmly believes this crazy story of Sd19. She has done crazy stuff like this for years and he has always called her on it. Why turn a blind eye now? Im so mad and sad. My daughter is caught in the middle of this fight and she didnt do anything wrong. He is giving her the silent treatment too and she has been calling him dad since she was 8. Im so hurt. Please help!