Boo Left out of senior night
I'm really struggling on how to support my husband right now.
Ss is senior in high school 18 yo. Senior night for basketball was this week. My husband talked with his son multiple times over the last two weeks about it. With no instruction given on what to expect or what he needed to do. He arrived to the game, his son runs to him hugs him says high then walks him to sit. Husband keeps asking his son and even the parent at the entry gate what to expect or where does he need to be to walk his son out. His son keeps saying "ah idk dad idk" then disappears and all of a sudden is walked out by his mom and step dad. Front and center directly in front of husband sitting down. He was shaking he was so mad and as couldn't even look at him. Boo lol had a stupid grin looking right at my husband. He left shortly after because he was so upset and hurt. He reached out to both bio mom and ss next day in a loving and truthful text. Radio silence on their end no response given.
before you start.. husband had full custody of him for 9 years. Bio mom was remarried a week after divorce was final and already 6 mo pregnant. She moved 8 states away and abandoned her son. Divorce wasn't husbands fault either. She cheated. Anyway long story short ss hated his mom for years. Once she was told we were getting married and expecting a kid. She all of a sudden wanted 50-50 custody. Started comparing and trying to convince ss her life, family and home were better. They started buying ss love which isn't hard with a teen. This started issues T our house with him being rude to me not speaking, not cleaning up, comparing me out loud to his mother. And not acknowledging our new born. Fast forward we have two kids now and he doesn't interact ask about or even acknowledge them. We lost a car so down to one, he started staying at his moms middle of junior year full time. But still visiting and doing outings with his dad. Why after 13 years of divorce would this woman still be so vile and mean to exclude him on senior night? Why would his stepson do this to him? How do i support husband during this time?!