Help on addressing visitation with ss who has autism
I have decided that I honestly can't have my stepson for extended periods of time, i.e. summer vacation, Christmas vacation while his father works 9-10 hours a day. Ss has "high functioning" autism according to his mother but is pretty much nonverbal or when he does "talk" I understand nothing as it sounds like gibberish to me. I need to tell my bf, future husband this but in a way he won't see it as I'm being mean. I honestly just can't put up with ss behaviors, being loud all the time and always saying no and being rude. Please help me find a way to address this issue. His son stresses me out, causes me to be upset and in turn I don't feel like I'm being the best mother to our 5 month old daughter. Please help advise.