He wants his kids 50/50.
I am 3 months pregnant. My fiancé has a boy, 3, and a girl, 9.
They are not terrible kids. The girl is declining attitude problems quickly however. Terrible eating habits for both of them. The boy screams sometimes and it cuts right through me.
I spend most of my time avoiding the kids when they are over. I just never liked them. I don't have any desire to bond with them. When we first started dating his ex was pregnant with the boy. She had cheated on him. He swore it wasn't his. Turns out it was. I never anticipated having two step kids in this relationship. I have a lot of resentment for the boy.
Fiancé is beginning a battle with his ex for 50/50. I know that a lot of the babysitting and driving around (we live about half an hour from their school) will land on me. And I don't want it.
when Covid hit we actually got stuck with his kids for 3 months straight. I was in a bad spot mentally struggling with depression and ended up developing panic disorder where I get the least over whelmed and I start hyperventilating. I will 100% say his kids are the ones that put me there.
We are currently living in a 2 bedroom apartment with my parents while we build our house (in the middle of nowhere about 45 min away from the kids school).
I don't think I can mentally handle his kids 50/50. Especially with a new baby.
I don't know what to do.