So normally everything is pretty calm when SD3 is at our home. Of course their is always hiccups but it happens. Shes hit terrible threes real bad, doesnt want to eat anything but junk, has meltdowns about every little thing and is getting more whiney and resistant if she doesnt feel she needs to do something ie clean up toys etc. Also the ever lovely sense of entitlement and the toys we have are never enough. Nothing ever compares to the toys and trips Grammy(SO's mom) does during daycare or with BM.
Yesterday we were playing in the pool, got everything cleaned up and she hopped on the potty and burst into tears. What on earth!!! I asked her to use her big girl words and tell me what was wrong. She kept saying "her butt hurt", is it your butt or your "girl parts"? My girl parts GSF300. Okay well lets finish going potty and we can hop in the tub and rinse off and see if that helps. She continued to cry and says BM&Grammy says GSF300 uses to much bubble bath in my bath time. I keep composure. Honey we use 1 cap full and Daddy asked us to not do bubble bath all the time so we've cut back on it. ( To keep it more of a treat) Do you use bubbles at BM and Grammys house? Yes, all the time. Now mind you she was not in the bath tub we just came in from outside so I have no idea where this burning came from?
I asked if she feels that way at Grammy/BM's and what do they do for it-- she said they give her ice to put on her girl parts..... Now me personally I am the queen of UTI's. Last time I checked that wasn't a remedy? But who am I... So I just told her to let me know if it continued to feel uncomfortable and when she went back to Grammy/BM's to let them know if it doesnt feel good as well. SO was not home for all of this. I got her rinsed off and dressed. She said she felt better.
Now the part that upset me, is once i helped get her dressed and out to watch cartoons before dinner. She looks at me and says I don't want to be here with you. And kept repeating it. Am i being associated with the burning girl parts here? Since mommy/grammy blamed me? She has these little moments now and then. But this was full blown. It continued when's Daddy coming home I dont want to be around you.
Once SO got home we all sat in the living room to talk, and he asked her what was wrong. She said she doesn't want to be here, and she is frustrated and sad. And she doesn't like being here and wants to go to Grammys......jesus.
I had to walk away.After i took a shower SD3 sat next to me held my hand and said I love you so much? What?