Step Daughter are hateful
Things never seem to change. Went over to the Step kids house for a Bday for 2yr old granddaughter. Upon entering the house, StepD gave her dad a big hug and announced how glad she was to see him, while completely ignoring me in front of a lot of people. The rest of the evening wasn't much better. When it was time to say goodbye, SD said, to granddaughter, say goodbye to grandpa, while ignoring me.
I gave sd her only baby shower. I buy all the presents for birthdays and Christmas, etc. My husband did say something about her behavior at the party. He said aren't you going to give Jodi a hug? She said of course and gave me one of those I don't want to touch you hugs. This has been going on for a long time. I told hubby after the latest hurtful snub. That's it. I'm not going to subject myself to her crap anymore. I really wanted to be a friend to her and a grandma to the little one. But forget it. She told me while she was in high school when I was trying to let her know that I would never replace her mom, but thought we could be friends, to which she replied "Friends, you are nothing to me".
What does one do against that kind of vicious behavior. She is just more subtle now. Should I confront her?