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BigE's picture

Hi all,

I am 41 married 4 step kids 2 have there own homes totally independent. 2 at home 1, 18 at college works part time all gods so far!

Last one 33 no job no money lives at home....no problem on his part. But let me add a bit of meat on the bones.

This one has had from us 2 cars, over 2 years worth of rent for his last flat, over 2k In payments when he had a mortgage, 2 jobs which I got him, twice he's left. He deals steroids from the house, steals clothes from his brother.....the list goes on. Yet he acts like 10 year old with his mother. Our marriage is nearly ruined and I quite frankly don't know what to do.

I just needed to get this off my chest people. Thanks for listening

E

20YearsAsAStep-Mom's picture

You're 41 and your SS is 33? You are not really his step-dad. Just kids moms husband, JMO

In the meantime, your DW needs to boot drug dealing loser to the curb yesterday. WTH is she thinking? This is a dangerous lifestyle and putting you and DW in jeopardy - legally and safety-wise.

If I were in this position I would get out as quick as possible. DW doesn't sound like she will take charge anytime soon.

tired and stressed's picture

How about anonymous tip to the police? Although may cause trouble for you and your spouse