Court decisions don't seem to matter
My husband and I have spent about $20,000 just since May. We have a great lawyer, but lawyers cost money. Not sure what we can do if the court tells us we have something and the wicked BM will NOT comply. The courts just want us to keep filing motions. No one has that kind of money. My husband is unemployed as of the moment because the evil BM tries everything in her power to try and get him in trouble. She has a Final Restraining Order (FRO) because she lies to the police and court ALL the time. Her family is politically connected in many ways which is why I think it was even granted, but I wouldn't even care about it if it worked BOTH WAYS!!! Apparently it doesn't! She can claim anything under the sun and they come after my husband. (who by the way is a Warm and Loving Person who treats me like gold in every way)But with this stupid FRO in place and ONLY working one way she gets to harrass us day and night. Then on top of it, no matter what the court decision is, she takes it upon herself to do the opposite and the only way they (the lawyers and cops) say we can do anything about it is to take her back to court! With what money???? How many times can you go? I mean the last court decision the judge told her and us that my husband DOES have rights to get information from the schools and other providers, but the exwife emailed him a nasty letter saying that she will answer any questions he has, and that the schools and providers don't want to talk to him. That would be fine but the woman told the court 3 days ago that she wants him to go get the info himself because "she is not his personal secretary". Nevermind we have tried that in the past and she wont answer anything honestly, so no he doesn't want info from her, he wants it from the providers themselves. How do you handle something like this? how can this go on? It is ridiculous! Nevermind that all this stress on my already High Risk pregnancy is taking its toll. And my favorite quote the other day from my stepsons was "Can they take the baby to jail too?" Gotta love it! Any ideas?