BM wants child support but won't put fDH on birth certificate - just venting
My fiance has a BM that was one of those phone calls you get "hi your daughter was born 15 days ago you are a daddy". We had a DNA test done and yes he is. BUT BM WILL NOT put him on the birth certificate. In beginning says it's her baby, blah blah. He offered child support but not until he's on the birth certificate, she said no I dont' want it. Now that I"m prego she wants child support becuase she says it's not fair he helps me and not her. And again he said "I never told you I wouldn't but if you want it we are going to go through the system and you have to add my name to the birth certificate to do that". He wanted to give it to her anyway so went to DSS and they said they couldn't take it out of his paycheck unless the mother instigated it. As soon as we get money to take her to court to get visitation and his name put on the birth certificate - it's very important to him. Now I'm afraid she's going to come back and want back child support really out of spite becuase she's jealous of our relationship. BUT keep in mind when she got prego she dumped my fDH to go back to her ex and changed her number and told him never to call her again. I am so sick of this women!!!!!