Why are men so stupid????
Today at therapy H says he doesn't know if he'll be able to tolerate my menopause. According to him it should last about 20 to 30 yrs and I'll become some kind of crazy woman. :jawdrop: I have tried to get him to read up on it. There are some great web sites that have helped me a lot. At first I tried to get him to go with me to my gyn but that's too disgusting. Apparently my menopause is the cause of a lot of sd's behavior. I thought I was supposed to be the crazy one right now?? I get so sick and tired of the same crap all the time. If I sneeze he rushes her to the doctor. Maybe I'm being petty but when I'm sick I want my needs taken care of not whatever make believe ailment she has. Here's a good example: a few years ago I came down with shingles. If you haven't gotten the vaccine yet do it now!! I have never been in so much pain that didn't involve a broken bone. Most people get it on their back, I got it on my face and in my right eye. Anyway I had an appointment with an ophthalmologist ( that's a mouthful) because the dr was afraid the virus would permanently damage my eye. The day of my appointment sd calls from school crying her eye hurt. The school nurse looked at it and couldn't find anything. So what does H do? Rushes to the school and takes her to the er, all that was wrong was an eyelash. Meantime back at the ranch I'm sitting waiting on H to get home. When he does 6hrs past my appointment he tells me she was so upset he had to take her to get something to eat and do a little shopping. It was 2 mths later before I could get to see the eye doctor and by then the damage had been done. At my last appointment 2wks ago I was told I've lost 90% of my vision in my right eye and I've had to give up my driver's license. When the dr tells H this all he can say is does this mean sd will need glasses. :? WTF Is this always going to be a competition? I swear if I got Ebola she'd have something worse just to get his attention and he goes along with it. If I say anything at all to him about it he comes back with "you don't like sd and you're being mean to her." Does it ever end???