BM has a family gene pool that would make bacteria cringe. The nephew's mom is a recovered drug addict and DH and BM raised him. I get it. I haven't said anything for more than a year, but enough is enough. BM is raking us over the coals in court making all kinds of allegations and requesting supervised visitation to try to get more money out of DH, calling me names, and generally being an all around bitch. However, she does like to push the nephew out the door for visitation every weekend so she can drink herself into a stupor and have threesomes with her ugly friends. The newphew is awful and frankly, I find myself watching him around my DD3 constantly and do not let them be alone in a room. He is just not all there.

Just to make things even more fun - dumbass DH offered to let his brother use his truck (aka our truck since I have paid $3000 in repairs over the last year and live in a community property state). His brother is a blazing alcoholic who was in for his second DUI a month ago, drinks every day, including while driving, has no license or insurance, and actually had an alcoholic seizure a couple months back. Brilliant right? Especially after a long discussion about putting us first and not in danger of lawsuits or anything else to help people like his brother. Nope - DH is not worth this much trouble.

I let him know that it was good to finally see that I rank in the following order of priorities: 1. his kids, 2. his ex wifes idiot nephew 3. his ex wife 4. his brother 5. work and then if no one else is around or he feels like getting laid 6. me.