Okay, here is my question, I am really hoping one of you can help me. About a month ago, my SD15, her dad, and myself had a talk. It came out that her mother is constantly bad mouthing me, and telling SD that she is "crazy" for coming over to see her dad, due to the fact that I am there. Now mind you we had not seen her for 6 solid months. About 3 weeks ago, H had to have a talk with BM, she was scheduling things during his time, during the call, she made the comment that she refused to send SD back over because I would just give her dirty looks all night. Which I might add, I did not, and would not. They have a court order, but you can use that for toilet paper as they havent followed it in a year, he went from week to week, to now he gets her two nights a month, which just started two months ago. Is there anything, legally I can do, to shut her up? I realize, yes she is going to run her mouth, but to some degree she is effecting SD. I have basically concluded that its either jealousy or she is just that insecure as to why she behaves this way. BM doesnt seem to understand the metal abuse she is putting the child thru. My H and I strongly believe there is PAS going on, once again, proving it is another disaster in itself, but if there is something I can do to hinder it a little bit it would help.

Thank you.