Picture of BM
I was playing with my SD last night and I saw a picture in her closet. It was of her mom and my husband. They had obviously gone and gotten pictures professionally taken.
I think it is strange that my SD has that picture because my husband and BM got divorced 6 months after my SD was born so she never knew them together. It makes me wonder if (like all children do) she wishes her mom and dad would get back together. I understand that my SD would want a picture of her mom, but I hate that it is of her and my husband.
I am worried that it would be overstepping or overreacting to ask my husband and SD to get a new picture of BM.
I asked my husband about it and he said that he was getting rid of some stuff and when SD saw it she wanted to keep it. My SD is nine so that means he was only getting rid of the picture a few years ago. I feel like my husband did not do the divorce right and maybe that is what upsets me, because if he had gotten rid of the pictures of his ex-wife (as well as other things I feel he should have done differently that I won't get into) in a timely matter then my SD wouldn't have the picture and I wouldn't have had to see it and I could forget that my husband once loved someone else enough to marry her, before me.
I'm fine with my SD having a picture of her mom at our house, I think it's great, but I just wish it wasn't of her and my husband. It's really bothering me and I don't know how to get over it. Any advice?