I am really trying!!!
I posted before about how skids miss so much school. SD16 missed half of last year....SD12 missed about a third of the year.....they don’t like school because they stay up all night watching tv so when morning comes they pull the I don’t feel good card.....so then BM has them at the doctor or hospital or some out of town specialist....between both skids going to tons of appts last year....SD16 has low iron....no other diagnosis found after many many doctor bills BM incurs and DH of course has to pay half....
so anyway today is the second week of school and SD16 already missed today....but she came here and was swinging on the swing set and running around the house then I took all the kids out for ice cream.....I didn’t know until after we got back from ice cream....then I’m annoyed because DH didn’t tell me. I don’t reward kids for not going to school.
i try so hard to disengage....but go to FUC$$NG school! How is the kid ever going to do anything in life. How does neither parent care if she goes to school or not? She is using her “low iron” to skip school but she can do everything else......She was fine all summer with her “low iron” but now that school is in she doesn’t feel good.
i think both kids need to therapist or something. I mean kids have to attend school???!!