So, SD18 stopped talking to DH the minute she turned 18. Hasn't talked to him in six months (I'm sure at her mothers behest). BM is demanding that he help pay for SD's college. NO GO lady. Maybe if she pulls her head out of her stuck up ass!
Anyway, he wasn't even invited to her high school graduation. Now for those that have read my entries you know my DH has gone through HELL for those kids. He pays $1400.00 a month on time for 10 years on 2 kids, and dealt with a crazy, Narcissistic BM the whole way. We get a call from MIL that her, FIL, SIL x 2 and BIL x 2 were invited not only to the graduation but to lunch with BM, BM's husband, BM's mother and SD 18 and 15 and then to BM's HOUSE for a party. They ACCEPTED! People, we do not negotiate with terrorist for a reason. Their reason is they wanted to show SD 18 support. I'm so tired of everyone acting like she's been KIDNAPPED. She chose to stop talking or having anything to do with them.
Maybe I'm wrong but to me the appropriate thing would have been to tell SD that they loved her, would be at her graduation, they were proud of her but if DH wasn't invited to the graduation they would not be attending dinner or her party. (I would even be ok with them going to her house, I don't expect her to invite DH there) but he wasn't even invited to her actual graduation!! Felling perturbed!! Now I've gone from a family I love to be around to barely being able to stand in the same room with them.