Do You Think Biology Plays a Part?
Just looking for thoughts and opinions - that's all. First off, let me say that I am not downplaying any of the PURE HELL that so many of us - myself included - have been put through by our skids, spouses, BMs. But, I've been thinking (OMG, that should make you hit the "back button" on your browser!)...
Do you think biology could play a part in our feelings or lack thereof for our skids? I mean aren't we BIOLOGICALLY inclined to fall madly in love with our OWN offspring and not the offspring of other people?
Now...to contradict that - when I first met my skids (2 step sons, now "grown") I LIKED them - BOTH of them. And...to this day I like the "good one" who did NOT put me through mortal hell and was NOT a stinking, entitled, mean, spiteful, mannerless, smelly, nasty, gross, disgusting waste of oxygen like the "bad one." So...that would blow the biology theory out of the water.
And...old pictures from BEFORE the HELL began - show me and BOTH skids happy together.
But could there not still be something to it. I mean "other" animals - I don't know - cows, whatever - care for their own and not the offspring of others, sometimes just ignoring them, sometimes rejecting them, sometimes even killing them.