Advice on dealing with a true blue WENCH!
DH was served court papers by his ex-wife for an increase in child support. DH has two daughters with her, ages 9 & 11. To all you seasoned ladies out there, are there any pointers you can give me that will help DH in court? The below are key issues regarding our situation:
1. DH's ex is remarried and voluntarily UNEMPLOYED. I feel like her voluntary unemployment should not be our financial burden. I have 4 bio children with DH and work full-time.
2. DH's ex lost her government assistance when she remarried a few months ago. The included her government Medicaid insurance for herself and the girls. She said we needed to add the girls to our insurance plan (I am the policy holder for insurance). I added the girls to my medical plan however, I couldn't provide them with dental/vision coverage because my plan doesn't accept step children unless we had physical custody. DH's job only offers a crappy medical plan, not dental/vision. She asked for documentation stating that we couldn't provide dental/vision because she found out she could ADD THE GIRLS FOR FREE TO HER HUSBANDS PLAN, but needed documentation to show they weren't receiving coverage from elsewhere. Once we have her the documentation, she changed her tune and stalled on getting them off my plan. If she has the chance to give them FULL COVERAGE for FREE in her husband's plan, why should we suffer paying for an additional plan?'
3. Will the judge take in to consideration that he has 4 children, 4 years old and under with me?
4. Any additional advice that would help us is greatly appreciate! She's trying to milk us...