Called BM out, and other lunacy for tonight
I hate the way BM lies about everything. She lies about receiving info DH provides her, lies about her health to get sympathy, lies about everything and everyone. She makes up lies about her son, my DH, and me.
Tonight I lost it as she was yelling at my DH saying he had never provided her with this or that, all lies as DH has provided her with said documents on numerous documantable occassions. Well, I interupted and called her out on it, told her to stop playing with us and be honest for five minutes, breaking my usual no contact policy and her statement that SS6 is none of my business. I also reminded her that I am unable to help her with anything since, as she says, SS6 is none of my business.
Then, when it it becomes obvious that she isn't getting her way, she starts sighing and moaning that she was in the anaphylatic shock since Saturday and she got taken to the ER on Sunday night to be treated because she fell over paraylized from the reaction. Of course, they just treated her and released her the same night.
She is such a damn lunatic. She is still screaming and ranting over the phone.
Stop answering the phone!
Stop answering the phone! Anaphylatic shock for days she'd be dead that's the way it works of course an allergic reaction for days is totally do able for days just not as dramatic kwim. Let it all be recorded on voice mail, makes harassment charges easier.
I wish she had suffered real
I wish she had suffered real anaphylaxis. Stupid C U Next Tuesday that she is. She is such an effing nut job. Then DH and I argued because he wouldn't just hang up on her. They were supposed to be discussing extended summer visitation and it turned into a bitch fest. On the upside he was speaking to her and didn't give in to her demands. Believe me when I say this is a huge improvement. On the downside he was seriously indulging the crazy.
And of course, I don't know what I am talking about. It wasn' his fault he was indulging the crazy, she was the one who kept changing the subject and being crazy. Thoses were his words. Because apparently, regardless of progress made, he still can't imagine actually standing up to the Holy Cow.
Oh, and the entire thing was littered with her blaming all SS's issues on DH and I, because DH went and married me and effectively abandoned his son for his wife, the proof if which is that he started expecting her to follow the CO. He is no longer concerned with his son's welfare because he is expecting Lazy McCrazy to fulfill her responsibilities of parenthood as set out by the State of Texas. In other words DH isn't asking how high when she says jump anymore and it pisses her off. Because trust me, he is still crazy hellicopter obsessed over his offspring.
Sounds like he needs to go
Sounds like he needs to go no/low contact parallel parenting mode. They can come to an agreement about extended summer visitation without actually having to TALK on the phone. She can send an email and he can respond ONLY to the parts about the skid
Good idea. According to
Good idea.
According to their paper work they are both supposed to submit extended visitation plans in writing not by verbal agreement. I don't understand why he was entertaining her foolishness.