bio parent contact during the other parent’s time with kids
Has any bio parent needed to make contact with BM/BD during their visitarion time - particulalry at the start and end, in order to coordinate pick up/drop-pffs? What typically happens during changeover? I just want to know how interaction can be avoided. I suppose it can be difficult if either parent is running late for pick up/drop off for any reason. If this happens they would need to make the other parent aware.
BM sends voice notes to DH and as I've mentioned in previous blogs, I find this kind of phone contact too personal. When the kids are with BM, she also sends photos of the kids to DH's phone. For example, SS made DH's signature dish at BM's house (DH taught SS how to make it while kids were with him) and BM sent a photo of SS holding the dish. I don't know if any one else has had experience with this and whether thia kind of day to day contact is all very normal. Is she simply keeping DH in the loop re. Kids or is it pushing boudaries?