Dramatic Texts from SD11
Last week SD called DH to ask to stay a few extra days at BM. This is very typical and she makes it pretty obvious that she doesn't like being here and prefers BM. Recently she has even asked if she can go to school up there. Anyway, the "few extra days" pass and SD11 starts texting DH.
- My mom doesn't even treat me I'm a real person
- I hate her so much
- I thought I was coming over today, but she lies
DH didn't really feed into it and just said - "Well, I'm sorry you can't make it over today. We were expecting you tonight." He didn't touch base with BM about it and just let it be.
Fast forward to the next day and SD comes over. DH asks SD what happened between the two of them.
SD: "BM was just cussing me out!"
DH : "Well what happened?"
SD: "Everyone was going out to eat. I told her I was going to stay in the car instead and I didn't want to go inside. Then she told me to get my @ss out of the car! UGH. So rude!"
DH: "Well, you Mom is right. You can't just stay in a car by yourself. But she shouldn't have cussed at you."
**Me over hearing all of this and thinking to myself** I agree with BM on this one! SD is acting like a brat, and if I wasn't her SM I would have totally said the same thing. What a self-centered brat with no consideration for others!!!"
I know pre-teens are difficult, but SD just seems so dramatic. Hot and cold with BOTH her parents. Begging to go to BM a few days ago, then saying how much she hates her. SD mood changes so quickly and I'm sick of the drama. DH tried to explain to her that she can't just run from her problems. If something makes previous little angel upset at one house, she can't just run to the other. SD skull is so thick she doesn't get it. I wish SD would just stay there and keep the drama with BM. It's getting to be so old.